_sideways_
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I've been stopping myself lately.. .need help
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what stops you from approaching and how do you remedy that?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Just go! don't think, find an excuse to talk to her like hey do you know where the bus station is? and go from there, just try to bring up something that fits the situation or the place where you at and try to make it like your bored and want company. after that build convo and step it up to flirt.
If she gives you signs like eye contact or a smile just ask for her name in stead of an excuse to approach. Be a man, take charge, if she blows you off look her in the eyes SMILE and leave without sayin a word.
all the tricks and tips for the convo are on the forum like you know. but just approach and do it all the time with every girl you like, after a while it'll be normal and most girls love it when a guys has the balls to do it. always +, however it turns out for you, regret is worse then rejection
If she gives you signs like eye contact or a smile just ask for her name in stead of an excuse to approach. Be a man, take charge, if she blows you off look her in the eyes SMILE and leave without sayin a word.
all the tricks and tips for the convo are on the forum like you know. but just approach and do it all the time with every girl you like, after a while it'll be normal and most girls love it when a guys has the balls to do it. always +, however it turns out for you, regret is worse then rejection
Demonicale
Senior Don Juan
Some great advice. After all, we all have to start somewhere.
I don't cold approach any more. Waste of time.
I will only ask a girl out if I know her already. Success rate is much better. Yes, I know that there is "nothing to lose" if you cold approach, but it makes me feel so beta. Alpha guys have women coming to them first.
I will only ask a girl out if I know her already. Success rate is much better. Yes, I know that there is "nothing to lose" if you cold approach, but it makes me feel so beta. Alpha guys have women coming to them first.