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I've been stopping myself lately.. .need help
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what stops you from approaching and how do you remedy that?
- Thread starter _sideways_
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Just go! don't think, find an excuse to talk to her like hey do you know where the bus station is? and go from there, just try to bring up something that fits the situation or the place where you at and try to make it like your bored and want company. after that build convo and step it up to flirt.
If she gives you signs like eye contact or a smile just ask for her name in stead of an excuse to approach. Be a man, take charge, if she blows you off look her in the eyes SMILE and leave without sayin a word.
all the tricks and tips for the convo are on the forum like you know. but just approach and do it all the time with every girl you like, after a while it'll be normal and most girls love it when a guys has the balls to do it. always +, however it turns out for you, regret is worse then rejection
If she gives you signs like eye contact or a smile just ask for her name in stead of an excuse to approach. Be a man, take charge, if she blows you off look her in the eyes SMILE and leave without sayin a word.
all the tricks and tips for the convo are on the forum like you know. but just approach and do it all the time with every girl you like, after a while it'll be normal and most girls love it when a guys has the balls to do it. always +, however it turns out for you, regret is worse then rejection
Demonicale
Senior Don Juan
Some great advice. After all, we all have to start somewhere.
I don't cold approach any more. Waste of time.
I will only ask a girl out if I know her already. Success rate is much better. Yes, I know that there is "nothing to lose" if you cold approach, but it makes me feel so beta. Alpha guys have women coming to them first.
I will only ask a girl out if I know her already. Success rate is much better. Yes, I know that there is "nothing to lose" if you cold approach, but it makes me feel so beta. Alpha guys have women coming to them first.