backbreaker
Master Don Juan
This is actually quite sad. I am in little rock for my uncle's funeral. I have a cousin, who is 2 years younger than me and has 3 kids. The oldest is 10 years old, in the 5th grade. I don't know him that well, I was there the day he was born but I mean, she is in the army she takes him back and forth to different states and stuff.
So we are sitting at my grandparents house and the kid, his name is Javeon, gets home from school. He has some English homework to do.. mind you, his in the ****ing 5 grade. So he is just sitting there trying to do his work, and his mom, my cousin, doesn't want to be bothered with trying to hel; him do his homework. Had to do with predictive adjectives.. kid had no freaking clue, and neither did she to be honest. And he didn't have a clue, becuase honestly he doesn't read ,and he doesn't'; read because his mom doesn't make him read. He had no freaking clue what to look for. I sat there for a good 2 and a half hours just working with him and made sure he understood, on his terms, what he was looking for. This is my freaking second cousin. I should not have to do this.
It pisses me off, I grew up with my cousin, she isn't stupid. or at least wasn't. But now all she cares about is kicking it and men. She isn't fit to be a mother and I hate to say that about my cousin, but it's the truth. The only thing my mom could afford to as a child was go to the library, so she read alot of books. When I was a kid, my mom would take me to the library once a month and make me pick out 2 books and I had to read them. She started taking my sister to the library when she was like 6, she is in the 5th grace and probably reads better than most kids in junior high. I don't say that to brag, I simply say, some people, just, should not be making babies. And my cousin is one of those people.
There should never be a point in childhood where your son or daughter comes home and asks you how to do something you can't do, lol, at least until you get in high school. If my son came home in the 11th grade and asked me something about chemistry lol, he's on his on or i will get him a tutor or something but I mean in general, civics, and English and stuff like that, man you should know this and yous hould be willing to help your chlid understand this.
Aloit of our countries problems is that parents just dont' give a damn. They have babies and expect them to go off to school and just get educated. "That's not how it works.
Then she (my cousin) complains when he has C's and D's in school which is what his grades are. She keeps saying "well we keep moving he can't get adjusted", no you are just a pathetic excuse for a parent.
It goes back to what we teach here on this forum. There is more to having a woman, especially if you are talking about a serious LTR than how good a ******* she gives. I'll be damned if I marry or have a child with a woman that doesn't know what the **** a predicative adjective is or the difference between a common and proper noun, or can't explain to ou child the difference between the declaration of Independence and the bill of rights. Oh they can get some **** lol. But nothing more. A LTR woman has to bring **** to the table besides poon.
One thing I can say about my dad I don't have alot of respect for him.. but he didn't have babies by dumb women. Man never got a degree never stepped foot on college, every last woman he had a baby by has a degree, and my mom and my little brothers mom's have masters degrees.
These are the questions we have to ask ourselves when we get into a LTR. Any time you start talking about a kid, or marriage, because that's really the only reason to get married, you need to care more about how your child is going to look (and my son is going to be a heartbreaker when it's all said and done lol, good lookin kid if I may say so myself). These women, have babies that they can't rais and then pas them on to teachers who are overburnded and underpaid then complain when the systme doesn't turn out a harvard grad.
The sad thing is, I can't help my little cousin everyday. Feel bad for the little dude.
So we are sitting at my grandparents house and the kid, his name is Javeon, gets home from school. He has some English homework to do.. mind you, his in the ****ing 5 grade. So he is just sitting there trying to do his work, and his mom, my cousin, doesn't want to be bothered with trying to hel; him do his homework. Had to do with predictive adjectives.. kid had no freaking clue, and neither did she to be honest. And he didn't have a clue, becuase honestly he doesn't read ,and he doesn't'; read because his mom doesn't make him read. He had no freaking clue what to look for. I sat there for a good 2 and a half hours just working with him and made sure he understood, on his terms, what he was looking for. This is my freaking second cousin. I should not have to do this.
It pisses me off, I grew up with my cousin, she isn't stupid. or at least wasn't. But now all she cares about is kicking it and men. She isn't fit to be a mother and I hate to say that about my cousin, but it's the truth. The only thing my mom could afford to as a child was go to the library, so she read alot of books. When I was a kid, my mom would take me to the library once a month and make me pick out 2 books and I had to read them. She started taking my sister to the library when she was like 6, she is in the 5th grace and probably reads better than most kids in junior high. I don't say that to brag, I simply say, some people, just, should not be making babies. And my cousin is one of those people.
There should never be a point in childhood where your son or daughter comes home and asks you how to do something you can't do, lol, at least until you get in high school. If my son came home in the 11th grade and asked me something about chemistry lol, he's on his on or i will get him a tutor or something but I mean in general, civics, and English and stuff like that, man you should know this and yous hould be willing to help your chlid understand this.
Aloit of our countries problems is that parents just dont' give a damn. They have babies and expect them to go off to school and just get educated. "That's not how it works.
Then she (my cousin) complains when he has C's and D's in school which is what his grades are. She keeps saying "well we keep moving he can't get adjusted", no you are just a pathetic excuse for a parent.
It goes back to what we teach here on this forum. There is more to having a woman, especially if you are talking about a serious LTR than how good a ******* she gives. I'll be damned if I marry or have a child with a woman that doesn't know what the **** a predicative adjective is or the difference between a common and proper noun, or can't explain to ou child the difference between the declaration of Independence and the bill of rights. Oh they can get some **** lol. But nothing more. A LTR woman has to bring **** to the table besides poon.
One thing I can say about my dad I don't have alot of respect for him.. but he didn't have babies by dumb women. Man never got a degree never stepped foot on college, every last woman he had a baby by has a degree, and my mom and my little brothers mom's have masters degrees.
These are the questions we have to ask ourselves when we get into a LTR. Any time you start talking about a kid, or marriage, because that's really the only reason to get married, you need to care more about how your child is going to look (and my son is going to be a heartbreaker when it's all said and done lol, good lookin kid if I may say so myself). These women, have babies that they can't rais and then pas them on to teachers who are overburnded and underpaid then complain when the systme doesn't turn out a harvard grad.
The sad thing is, I can't help my little cousin everyday. Feel bad for the little dude.

