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What sosuave and our education system have in common

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This is actually quite sad. I am in little rock for my uncle's funeral. I have a cousin, who is 2 years younger than me and has 3 kids. The oldest is 10 years old, in the 5th grade. I don't know him that well, I was there the day he was born but I mean, she is in the army she takes him back and forth to different states and stuff.

So we are sitting at my grandparents house and the kid, his name is Javeon, gets home from school. He has some English homework to do.. mind you, his in the ****ing 5 grade. So he is just sitting there trying to do his work, and his mom, my cousin, doesn't want to be bothered with trying to hel; him do his homework. Had to do with predictive adjectives.. kid had no freaking clue, and neither did she to be honest. And he didn't have a clue, becuase honestly he doesn't read ,and he doesn't'; read because his mom doesn't make him read. He had no freaking clue what to look for. I sat there for a good 2 and a half hours just working with him and made sure he understood, on his terms, what he was looking for. This is my freaking second cousin. I should not have to do this.

It pisses me off, I grew up with my cousin, she isn't stupid. or at least wasn't. But now all she cares about is kicking it and men. She isn't fit to be a mother and I hate to say that about my cousin, but it's the truth. The only thing my mom could afford to as a child was go to the library, so she read alot of books. When I was a kid, my mom would take me to the library once a month and make me pick out 2 books and I had to read them. She started taking my sister to the library when she was like 6, she is in the 5th grace and probably reads better than most kids in junior high. I don't say that to brag, I simply say, some people, just, should not be making babies. And my cousin is one of those people.

There should never be a point in childhood where your son or daughter comes home and asks you how to do something you can't do, lol, at least until you get in high school. If my son came home in the 11th grade and asked me something about chemistry lol, he's on his on or i will get him a tutor or something but I mean in general, civics, and English and stuff like that, man you should know this and yous hould be willing to help your chlid understand this.

Aloit of our countries problems is that parents just dont' give a damn. They have babies and expect them to go off to school and just get educated. "That's not how it works.

Then she (my cousin) complains when he has C's and D's in school which is what his grades are. She keeps saying "well we keep moving he can't get adjusted", no you are just a pathetic excuse for a parent.

It goes back to what we teach here on this forum. There is more to having a woman, especially if you are talking about a serious LTR than how good a ******* she gives. I'll be damned if I marry or have a child with a woman that doesn't know what the **** a predicative adjective is or the difference between a common and proper noun, or can't explain to ou child the difference between the declaration of Independence and the bill of rights. Oh they can get some **** lol. But nothing more. A LTR woman has to bring **** to the table besides poon.

One thing I can say about my dad I don't have alot of respect for him.. but he didn't have babies by dumb women. Man never got a degree never stepped foot on college, every last woman he had a baby by has a degree, and my mom and my little brothers mom's have masters degrees.

These are the questions we have to ask ourselves when we get into a LTR. Any time you start talking about a kid, or marriage, because that's really the only reason to get married, you need to care more about how your child is going to look (and my son is going to be a heartbreaker when it's all said and done lol, good lookin kid if I may say so myself). These women, have babies that they can't rais and then pas them on to teachers who are overburnded and underpaid then complain when the systme doesn't turn out a harvard grad.

The sad thing is, I can't help my little cousin everyday. Feel bad for the little dude.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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backbreaker said:
Aloit of our countries problems is that parents just dont' give a damn.
Wow. Nailed it on the head again.
 

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Whenever you hear about an altercation in school the first thing you hear on the news is the parent saying: the school didn't discipline my child enough. My parents were pretty strict in that they wouldn't let me go out or play games till I finished my homework, and they checked that I did my homework every single day. My parents being immigrants couldn't help me out on a lot of my homework, so they made well sure if I needed help with anything that I would call up someone in the classroom or even the teacher to be sure. When I tried to sneak in a video game or w/e, if they caught me they would hit mi and yell and me. They wouldn't beat me to a crippling pulp but they would want to know I wouldn't do it again, at least for a while ( you can never stop a determined kid forever :yes: ). However when I succeeded, they would always encourage me with words and sometimes items. My dad also gave me $1 every time I got a 100 on a spelling and vocabulary quiz and a dollar in elementary school days was awesome.

The thing is schools are effective, but only if the kid wants to learn. If you have a kid who doesn't like learning or who can get away with it at home, he's not going to take time out of his day to actually learn. Who would? You can play video games or go to a friend's house for instant gratification. Infinitely more fun that doing problems in your math workbook, or looking up ten words every day for vocabulary. And if the kid no clue what to do, you have to find a way to help him somehow, its your job as a parent.
 

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Your cousin is 2 years your junior (25), and her son is 10, meaning she probably got knocked up at 14 and delivered at 15. In that 10 year period she managed to have 2 more. And you're shocked she's a bad parent?

Hmm,..
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Your cousin is 2 years your junior (25), and her son is 10, meaning she probably got knocked up at 14 and delivered at 15. In that 10 year period she managed to have 2 more. And you're shocked she's a bad parent?

Hmm,..
Her sister is just one year younger than me and has a 8 year old... could not possibly be a better mother. Nothing like her younger sister.

Hell my mom had me at 17.


Rollo, I have alot of respect for you, but you know better than to make sweeping accusations. I think you are buying too much into the kool aid about the opposite sex. You are seeming to lose your objectivity. I know 30 year old first time parents who make ****ty parents. On the other hand, my grandmother was 61 when she passed earlier this year, and my mother is 44 years old, and while my grandmother was dirt poor my mom has a masters degree and her sister has a degree as well, yet my grandmother didn't even have a high school education. Using that same ass backwards logic, that's like saying, a woman who is 45 years old, who used to do.. meth for instance when she was in her early 20's but has been clean for like 15 years, if she were to fall behind on her car note, you would come out and say "well she used to do hard drugs, what do you expect". that's stupid. people grow up and life experiences mold people to be who they are. A person is not defined by any one event in their life (Except on extremely rare occusions of course). A 25 year old with a 10 year old child, has every right to be a godo mother, as good as she can be.

My cousin is not a ****ty mom becuase she had her son early, she is a ****ty mom becuase her priorities are out of whack.

Regardless of how old she had the child at, right now eh's a 25 year old grown woman.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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In my not so humble opinion, parenting without a license should be illegal. Think about it. They make you get a license to drive a car, but not to manipulate the destiny/future of a human being? Seriously there should be a written test on nutrition, behavior, discipline along with a performance test where they give you one of those robotic baby's that they some schools now give to high schoolers. If you fail, you either give up for adoption or abort.
 

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Danger, I agree and was being facetious. Mandatory abortions would not exactly fly in any country. That said there should be some sort of training program to prepare folks, especially young people for the challenges they face. Too many of them are winging it and doing a lousy job
 

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I blame TV, and especially the use of the television as a babysitter. Have you seen a kids' cartoon lately? They about give me a seizure. There's no way that a book can compete with the flashing light show of television, cartoons, and kids' DVDs.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I blame TV, and especially the use of the television as a babysitter. Have you seen a kids' cartoon lately? They about give me a seizure. There's no way that a book can compete with the flashing light show of television, cartoons, and kids' DVDs.
I am sure its much more of a myriad of factors as opposed to TV.

What needs to go in this country are these entitlement programs which provide welfare. I am not talking about safety nets for people who have been contributing in the work force, I mean things that basically give people money to sit on their asses. octomother is a good example of this, as she had 8 kids and expected the system to flip the bill. If people don't have expectations for free money, maybe they'll think twice.....but maybe not too!

Question is, why the difference?

Higher population. Its no secret that negative publicity gets more attention than positive publicity ; one drop of piss in the soup makes it bad. The more people you have, the more instances of crappy parenting you hear about. The good parenting goes largely unnoticed.
 

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The difference is in the breakdown of economy and family units.

Nowadays both parents are often forced to work in order to maintain a lifestyle that decades ago was attainable on one salary. Couple that with record divorce rates, a culture that encourages instant gratification and a deterioration in overall values/relationships and you have a recipe for neglect which trickles down several generations.

Simply put, the support system we once had is not there anymore. Family doesn't matter. Hard work means nothing. Morality and integrity, once considered signs of strength are now considered weak/prudish. It's all one big egofest where we've forgotten our tribal roots and the strength of our numbers.

Interesting to note, the fall of every empire in history is preceded by this pattern. First the family falls apart, then education, then economy, followed by government failure and ending in military failure. Then it's time to redraw the maps.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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DJ Logic said:
The difference is in the breakdown of economy and family units.

Nowadays both parents are often forced to work in order to maintain a lifestyle that decades ago was attainable on one salary. Couple that with record divorce rates, a culture that encourages instant gratification and a deterioration in overall values/relationships and you have a recipe for neglect which trickles down several generations.

Simply put, the support system we once had is not there anymore. Family doesn't matter. Hard work means nothing. Morality and integrity, once considered signs of strength are now considered weak/prudish. It's all one big egofest where we've forgotten our tribal roots and the strength of our numbers.

Interesting to note, the fall of every empire in history is preceded by this pattern. First the family falls apart, then education, then economy, followed by government failure and ending in military failure. Then it's time to redraw the maps.
That's just in the Western countries. Eastern countries like Russia, China, and India are predicted to continue rising while western countries are predicted to lag behind.
 

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That's just in the Western countries. Eastern countries like Russia, China, and India are predicted to continue rising while western countries are predicted to lag behind.
Is that because of good education or just sheer workforce?
 

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@Speculator,

Exactly! Now compare the values of western nations and compare them to those in Eastern/Asian countries and you see a big difference, especially when it comes to family and education. If you want your country to prosper you gotta line your ducks up first
 

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Danger said:
It's because they do not have the debt drag that the Old Fiat western economies do.

Cheers for Central Banking fiat.
Exactly. Silly bankers for thinking they can keep the credit engine running forever without a big mess like this. Here's a reality check, the worst financial crisis since the Great Depression you've been hearing so much about isn't over yet and the worst of it is still coming. It won't be long before people are panicking again.

DJ Logic said:
@Speculator,

Exactly! Now compare the values of western nations and compare them to those in Eastern/Asian countries and you see a big difference, especially when it comes to family and education. If you want your country to prosper you gotta line your ducks up first
Oh well, nothing much you can do about it. No one is influential enough to change society. All you can do now is think about yourself. I've heard the women those foreign countries will make good wife's. At least better than here in the United States. Maybe someday, when I've got the time and money I'll head over their and see.
 

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Get him a cheap computer tower with a good internet connection.
If he puts enough effort into it the internet has enough information FOR FREE that he could probably teach himself calculus.
Hell, college science and mathematics courses, recorded on video, are available for download FREE online. Transcripts and scanned notes, as well.
Why the heck does a parent have to teach the kid? If the kid really wanted to he could go learn and ask at those education/homework help forums with actual math teachers being members. YOUTUBE. It's not for entertainment anymore. Yale courses are on here. Videos explaining algebra II are on here. There are entire textbooks scanned and available for download, free. (illegally) There are also free-to-distribute scanned (legal) versions of textbooks (outdated or just plain made for free distribution), like motion mountain for physics. These are top-notch books and they are free.There is no longer a valid excuse for a kid wanting to learn being unable to if he doesn't have a computer. I mean, sure, the mother should teach the kid, but it's much better for the kid if the mother just gives him the right resources.. Unless maybe the mother is a math professor or otherwise has an education background.

What the education system and this world has in common? For those who try, hard, there is almost always a way. As it should be, no?

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Aloit of our countries problems is that parents just dont' give a damn. They have babies and expect them to go off to school and just get educated. "That's not how it works.
Of course not. The kid's gotta want to learn. Or do you want our education system to be like South Korea's? I heard they go to supplementary education from like 5th grade, sleep at 2AM, and go to school to study more. Also, corporal punishment is still there. As in, they will beat your kids with rulers and the like if they can't recite a memorization or what-not. Spartan. And Korean suicide rates and birth rates have been problems.
 

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DJ Logic said:
In my not so humble opinion, parenting without a license should be illegal. Think about it. They make you get a license to drive a car, but not to manipulate the destiny/future of a human being? Seriously there should be a written test on nutrition, behavior, discipline along with a performance test where they give you one of those robotic baby's that they some schools now give to high schoolers. If you fail, you either give up for adoption or abort.
I can see it now lol, "license and registration ma'am"
 
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