"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What songs are you listening to right now?

chuchu

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I droved my sister in the car today and she told me I need to update my cds collection. I thought it was a good idea, so if you fellas can list me some songs I'll be appreciated. I listen to anything, Rap, Trance, R&B...ect. Anything.

Here is what I got in my list

1. Give it to me - Timberland
2. Chop me up - Timberlake
3. If I want to - Usher
4. Say it right - Nelly
5. Some remix of 2pac songs
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ValleyDJing

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This should be in anything else section but since I love music I'm gonna give you some ideas.

I Tried- Bone Thugs ft. Akon
Get Freaky- Pit Bull
Everybody Get Up- Pit Bull ft. Pretty Rickey
Magic City- 2XL (also check the remix with UNK)
Do U- Do or Die
Burn it up- R Kelly
I'm a Flirt- R kelly (remix too)
Show me the Money- Petey Pablo
Err Thang- Mac Dre if you like hyphy

As for rock, there's really only one new song that I like thats come out recently and thats

The River- Good Charlotte
 

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Put it down -Timbaland (w/redman)
Do it-Timbaland (w/nelly furtado)
Kingdom Come-Jay-Z
Infinity Girl-Stereolab
Talk in Danger-Luomo
Two Can Win- J Dilla
Some Girls are Bigger Than Others- The Smiths
Everybody-Basement Jaxx
Icing Sugar-the Cure
Martyr-Depeche Mode
My Soul's Not for Sale-DJ Jazzy Jeff
She's Unreal-Meat Beat Manifesto

I could go on and on, loving my new iPod.
 

Obsidian

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just go to billboard.com and find what songs are the most popular

That Nellly Furtado song is a good one that I still hear on the radio all the time, tho.

Btw, if you go to pandora.com, you can design a radio station that will help you identify new music you would like.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow you guys really have shocking music tastes apart from wolfmother. Rock n' Roll is the way to go baby not this new RnB crap that has no meaning to the songs.
 

Dannyrt34

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I like 90s music

3 am - Matchbox twenty
Closing time - Semisonic
Be like that - Three doors down
You and Me - Lifehouse
Name - Goo goo dolls
 

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Anything by Metallica,old school(Dude Ranch and older) blink-182,any Offspring,Highland Drive,Judas Priest,lol dude my list can go on forever of all the music I have on my PC.

Perhaps you should be more specific as to what type of music genre you are looking for suggestions.
 

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Man I don't like any of this stuff. rap, r&b and such are unbearable imo, but to each his own I guess.

I would recommend things like Porcupine Tree, Muse, Matthew Good, Arcade Fire, the Decemberists but I get the feeling that's not really what you'd be into. Try some of them out anyways!
 

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Niche ft. B1 and RemZi
Bit of Chris Brown
Niche
Plan B
Stealth
Panic! at the Disco

You probably wonthave heard of most of these as its mostly UK music and most you guys are from the states
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Charm&Style

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Notorious Thugs - Biggi & Bone Thugs and Harmony.
NWA- Chin Check
A couple songs from The Bravery
Easy E's best hits
Dr Dre's The Chronic

and...

the GYPSY KINGS....hell mothafvckin yea.
 
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