"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What songs are you listening to right now?

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I droved my sister in the car today and she told me I need to update my cds collection. I thought it was a good idea, so if you fellas can list me some songs I'll be appreciated. I listen to anything, Rap, Trance, R&B...ect. Anything.

Here is what I got in my list

1. Give it to me - Timberland
2. Chop me up - Timberlake
3. If I want to - Usher
4. Say it right - Nelly
5. Some remix of 2pac songs
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ValleyDJing

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This should be in anything else section but since I love music I'm gonna give you some ideas.

I Tried- Bone Thugs ft. Akon
Get Freaky- Pit Bull
Everybody Get Up- Pit Bull ft. Pretty Rickey
Magic City- 2XL (also check the remix with UNK)
Do U- Do or Die
Burn it up- R Kelly
I'm a Flirt- R kelly (remix too)
Show me the Money- Petey Pablo
Err Thang- Mac Dre if you like hyphy

As for rock, there's really only one new song that I like thats come out recently and thats

The River- Good Charlotte
 
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Put it down -Timbaland (w/redman)
Do it-Timbaland (w/nelly furtado)
Kingdom Come-Jay-Z
Infinity Girl-Stereolab
Talk in Danger-Luomo
Two Can Win- J Dilla
Some Girls are Bigger Than Others- The Smiths
Everybody-Basement Jaxx
Icing Sugar-the Cure
Martyr-Depeche Mode
My Soul's Not for Sale-DJ Jazzy Jeff
She's Unreal-Meat Beat Manifesto

I could go on and on, loving my new iPod.
 
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just go to billboard.com and find what songs are the most popular

That Nellly Furtado song is a good one that I still hear on the radio all the time, tho.

Btw, if you go to pandora.com, you can design a radio station that will help you identify new music you would like.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow you guys really have shocking music tastes apart from wolfmother. Rock n' Roll is the way to go baby not this new RnB crap that has no meaning to the songs.
 
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I like 90s music

3 am - Matchbox twenty
Closing time - Semisonic
Be like that - Three doors down
You and Me - Lifehouse
Name - Goo goo dolls
 
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Anything by Metallica,old school(Dude Ranch and older) blink-182,any Offspring,Highland Drive,Judas Priest,lol dude my list can go on forever of all the music I have on my PC.

Perhaps you should be more specific as to what type of music genre you are looking for suggestions.
 
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Man I don't like any of this stuff. rap, r&b and such are unbearable imo, but to each his own I guess.

I would recommend things like Porcupine Tree, Muse, Matthew Good, Arcade Fire, the Decemberists but I get the feeling that's not really what you'd be into. Try some of them out anyways!
 
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Niche ft. B1 and RemZi
Bit of Chris Brown
Niche
Plan B
Stealth
Panic! at the Disco

You probably wonthave heard of most of these as its mostly UK music and most you guys are from the states
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Notorious Thugs - Biggi & Bone Thugs and Harmony.
NWA- Chin Check
A couple songs from The Bravery
Easy E's best hits
Dr Dre's The Chronic

and...

the GYPSY KINGS....hell mothafvckin yea.
 
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