"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What size mattress, queen or king?

Lithium1

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I've got a smaller room and a king would just eat up the room (but I've always wanted a king) and a queen would fit better. I'm gonna have the thing for 10+ years. Just can't decide!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr.Positive

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I agree with the others, go with the queen.

Plenty of room for you and gal together. If the gal is so big that a king size is needed, something is wrong.
 

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queen is a big enough playgorund.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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search1ng

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queen, and make sure the mattress is quality.
 

speed dawg

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KING!!! And splurge for the Temperpedic, your back with thank you.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Beds are like motorcycles - having a small one keeps you from dating fat chicks.
I approve this post.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vantagepoint34

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King is too bulky. I came into the opportunity of having one and it's a pain in the back to move it. Go with the queen.
 

WORKEROUTER

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Go with the King if you can manage 1) moving it, and 2) the size.

I recently had to get a queen due to size but will be getting a king again when I can. It's a lot more fun to f*ck a chick in a king size mattress, and it feels great to sleep any way you possibly want. I'd always bring new chicks into my bedroom and they would love sleeping on the king. You really don't know the benefits of one until you buy one.
 

Down Low

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My experience is that wider is better. Standard king is the widest.

Imagine 10 years from now you could have some fat ugly b1tch you're doing with her little rug rat attached to her tit. You'll want as much room as possible (until you throw her and her evil spawn out on their ears).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BoySam

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I'm currently using a Tuft & Needle10-inch King Mattress. Finding a king size mattress box was harder than expected. I read tons of reviews online, mostly on https://sleepissimple.com/ . If to be short, Tuft & Needle10-inch King Mattressis what the perfect mattress is supposed to feel like. The firmness/softness on this will make a lot of people happy.
 

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I'm 6'4" and 275lbs and my female friends tend to be smaller than me but bigger than average. So king size without a doubt!

And Tempurpedic all the way. I was never been able to sleep on my back until I got a Tempurpedic.
 

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I think mattress should be comfortable, and you need to choose right size only for you. I also want to buy new mattress, how to choose KingsDown mattress?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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