"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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too many to list. Mainly my bank accounts, credit card sites, investments, netflix, company websites, and ebay.
 

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mpimpin said:
too many to list. Mainly my bank accounts, credit card sites, investments, netflix, company websites, and ebay.
I give you points

You did not bookmark any porn sites
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I give you points

You did not bookmark any porn sites
Haha no porn sites. I don't even have SS listed. There are certain sites I don't want others to happen to come across.
 

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it's what I do.

The Mad Ghost, i spend about 14 or so hours a day online it's my job. I have alot of down time. plus most of those are just RSS'ed to my reader account so it's not like i'm on the site constantly. this site and tbc are really the only 2 sites i actually go to

It's no different than if you sold stocks, you are going to have the wall street journal, the new york times, ruteurs, msnbc, bloomburg and all the other financial sites.
This is what I do, every bit of information helps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mostly programming articles, hockey news sites and random webapp pages like Grooveshark. Anything else I need to know comes through RSS.
 

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Aside from secret or scandalous websites I cannot disclose, here is an abridged sampling.

academicearth.org
blogs.discoverymagazine.com/badastronomy
fark.com
newyorktimes.com
richardwiseman.wordpress.com
roissy.wordpress.com
scienceblogs.com/pharyngula
scienceblogs.com/insolence
scientificamerican.com
scientopia.com/blogs/goodmath
skeptic.com
theabsolute.net
wired.com
 

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Rogue said:
Aside from secret or scandalous websites I cannot disclose,
You mean porn websites
 

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it's what I do. i spend about 14 or so hours a day online it's my job. .
Oh, thought you were just surfing this all in you're free time bro. I'm not innocent anyway, I have countless bookmarks to name a few.

http://mmajunkie.com/
http://community.ufc.com/
http://www.fashionbeans.com/
http://www.styleforum.net/
http://funandsocial.blogspot.com/
http://www.armchairgeneral.com/
http://us-marines.blogspot.com/
http://fightin6thmarines.vox.com/
http://www.forbes.com/
http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/
 

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i literally have like a billion articles bookmarked. but here's what i have bookmarked at the top of the firefox screen for quick access

http://www.fastseduction.com
http://www.sosuave.net
http://www.kasidie.com/static/magazine/2008/10/spreader-bar.html (lol, im making one this week, so it won't be there once i make it)
http://www.t-nation.com
http://www.stronglifts.com
http://www.fallensword.com (a game i play online a couple hours a week; don't have any video game systems or tv in my house, so i play this to satisfy the kid in me.)
http://www.facebook.com
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You mean porn sites.
Yeah like Suicide Girls and God's Girls, just because you asked, but there other websites in different nature which I cannot mention for one reason or another.
 

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I don't understand the point in bookmarking sites. I don'th ave a problem remembering what sites I go to haha.
 

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Boxer said:
I don't understand the point in bookmarking sites. I don'th ave a problem remembering what sites I go to haha.

a little quicker then typing in address after address.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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