"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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too many to list. Mainly my bank accounts, credit card sites, investments, netflix, company websites, and ebay.
 

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mpimpin said:
too many to list. Mainly my bank accounts, credit card sites, investments, netflix, company websites, and ebay.
I give you points

You did not bookmark any porn sites
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I give you points

You did not bookmark any porn sites
Haha no porn sites. I don't even have SS listed. There are certain sites I don't want others to happen to come across.
 

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it's what I do.

The Mad Ghost, i spend about 14 or so hours a day online it's my job. I have alot of down time. plus most of those are just RSS'ed to my reader account so it's not like i'm on the site constantly. this site and tbc are really the only 2 sites i actually go to

It's no different than if you sold stocks, you are going to have the wall street journal, the new york times, ruteurs, msnbc, bloomburg and all the other financial sites.
This is what I do, every bit of information helps.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mostly programming articles, hockey news sites and random webapp pages like Grooveshark. Anything else I need to know comes through RSS.
 

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Aside from secret or scandalous websites I cannot disclose, here is an abridged sampling.

academicearth.org
blogs.discoverymagazine.com/badastronomy
fark.com
newyorktimes.com
richardwiseman.wordpress.com
roissy.wordpress.com
scienceblogs.com/pharyngula
scienceblogs.com/insolence
scientificamerican.com
scientopia.com/blogs/goodmath
skeptic.com
theabsolute.net
wired.com
 

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Rogue said:
Aside from secret or scandalous websites I cannot disclose,
You mean porn websites
 

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backbreaker said:
it's what I do. i spend about 14 or so hours a day online it's my job. .
Oh, thought you were just surfing this all in you're free time bro. I'm not innocent anyway, I have countless bookmarks to name a few.

http://mmajunkie.com/
http://community.ufc.com/
http://www.fashionbeans.com/
http://www.styleforum.net/
http://funandsocial.blogspot.com/
http://www.armchairgeneral.com/
http://us-marines.blogspot.com/
http://fightin6thmarines.vox.com/
http://www.forbes.com/
http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/
 

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i literally have like a billion articles bookmarked. but here's what i have bookmarked at the top of the firefox screen for quick access

http://www.fastseduction.com
http://www.sosuave.net
http://www.kasidie.com/static/magazine/2008/10/spreader-bar.html (lol, im making one this week, so it won't be there once i make it)
http://www.t-nation.com
http://www.stronglifts.com
http://www.fallensword.com (a game i play online a couple hours a week; don't have any video game systems or tv in my house, so i play this to satisfy the kid in me.)
http://www.facebook.com
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You mean porn sites.
Yeah like Suicide Girls and God's Girls, just because you asked, but there other websites in different nature which I cannot mention for one reason or another.
 

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I don't understand the point in bookmarking sites. I don'th ave a problem remembering what sites I go to haha.
 

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Boxer said:
I don't understand the point in bookmarking sites. I don'th ave a problem remembering what sites I go to haha.

a little quicker then typing in address after address.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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