What should you do when a woman insults you?

[edegoge]

You admit to feeling angry if a woman is hot.

What does that have to do with the topic of this thread? That was talking about those women that don't want to date me.

 

[Macaframalama]

I get the feeling most of you are just keyboard warriors. It's really easy to appear tough on a forum, quite something else IRL.

Yea, because saying what he suggested would take a HUUUGGGEEE handful of bawlsack IRL.
It's the perfect response.

 

[Spaz]

Again, easy to be "a man" online.

Is it difficult to be a man offline?

U r after all a man.

 

[devilkingx2]

I think she was asking about another woman who was texting me. I said she is 43, ten years older than me, and she wants to have children with me and I don't want that. Then I think this b1tch laughed and said I can't have a child. When I asked her why she said that she started lying about me being too young and then tried acting dumb etc. She also asked if I want children, which I think I had already told her I don't want, not sure. Anyway I made the mistake of replying that I don't know, when I should have said it doesn't matter. I asked her about the age of the father of her son and she was playing dumb and lied more, tried to change the age of her son to 7 when she had already told me he's 10, said that's "almost 10", etc. The father of her son was younger than I am now when they had the child, as I said I'm 33, and this b1tch is 31. And she said 45 is a good age to be a father. Just a lot of bullsh1t to try to cover up after she blurted out an insult because she's so stupid she just says what she feels without thinking.

Sounds like you read this whole situation wrong because you got oversensitive/fragile ego

It sounds like this girl put her foot in her mouth in an attempt to dissuade you from having kids or otherwise getting serious with another women

Aka she likes you a lot, panicked/got jealous and said something she didn't think through

No, I mean it's easy to say on a forum that any comment from a woman wouldn't faze you and just roll off you like water off a duck's back.

You just gotta learn to not take things seriously, when i talk to girls most of the time I'm putting on an act/in-character so it's easier for most things to be shrugged off

 

[ubercat]

Yeah I just sit around every weekend counting my reps here like the ghost of BigNeil.

Or Mr edgy possibly the guys are giving you responses based on your slightly odd situation. You're obviously young why are you messing with a 43 year old?

You also obviously thin skinned. A lot of chicks r merciless when they sense weakness so you're probably going to get s*** tested to death. And how are you going to cope when you get some psycho boss at work which is at least half of them these days.

My honest suggestion get yourself a team sport e.g. join a soccer team. The guys will give you s*** you'll give it back and that skin will toughen up. Which will help you immensely with chicks.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I think she was asking about another woman who was texting me. I said she is 43, ten years older than me, and she wants to have children with me and I don't want that. Then I think this b1tch laughed and said I can't have a child. When I asked her why she said that she started lying about me being too young and then tried acting dumb etc. She also asked if I want children, which I think I had already told her I don't want, not sure. Anyway I made the mistake of replying that I don't know, when I should have said it doesn't matter. I asked her about the age of the father of her son and she was playing dumb and lied more, tried to change the age of her son to 7 when she had already told me he's 10, said that's "almost 10", etc. The father of her son was younger than I am now when they had the child, as I said I'm 33, and this b1tch is 31. And she said 45 is a good age to be a father. Just a lot of bullsh1t to try to cover up after she blurted out an insult because she's so stupid she just says what she feels without thinking.

All of this...why do you care about any of it mate? You don't seem to be in a particularly serious or committed relationship with this woman, why do you care whether her son is 7 or 10, or whether she wants you to have kids or not? It's not even her business anyway.

I'm not saying insults from a woman roll off my back, I just think this is not something you should be at all insulted or bothered by. You shouldn't give a solitary s*** about any of this wall of text stuff.

Just enjoy hanging out with her and take it down 10 notches. There's no need to be second guessing all this stuff and seeing insults everywhere.

 

[edegoge]

It sounds like this girl put her foot in her mouth in an attempt to dissuade you from having kids or otherwise getting serious with another women

Aka she likes you a lot, panicked/got jealous and said something she didn't think through

I don't think so, because this woman is only in my country for a few weeks.

 

[devilkingx2]

I don't think so, because this woman is only in my country for a few weeks.

A few weeks of having fun with you, and if she gets you to knock her up she gets to have fun with you forever

 

[AJ84]

I think she was asking about another woman who was texting me. I said she is 43, ten years older than me, and she wants to have children with me and I don't want that. Then I think this b1tch laughed and said I can't have a child. When I asked her why she said that she started lying about me being too young and then tried acting dumb etc. She also asked if I want children, which I think I had already told her I don't want, not sure. Anyway I made the mistake of replying that I don't know, when I should have said it doesn't matter. I asked her about the age of the father of her son and she was playing dumb and lied more, tried to change the age of her son to 7 when she had already told me he's 10, said that's "almost 10", etc. The father of her son was younger than I am now when they had the child, as I said I'm 33, and this b1tch is 31. And she said 45 is a good age to be a father. Just a lot of bullsh1t to try to cover up after she blurted out an insult because she's so stupid she just says what she feels without thinking.

No, I mean it's easy to say on a forum that any comment from a woman wouldn't faze you and just roll off you like water off a duck's back.

You "think" she was asking about another woman and you "think" she laughed and said you can't have a child? Either she did or she didn't I don't get it.

I also don't get why you even care, esp as she is just some girl who is in town for a couple of weeks. Not sure what your intentions are with her but if it's to have some fun before she heads back to where ever she is from, best to let this roll of your back and have that time limted fun and not create drama over this, unless she said something that was truly insulting, which, based on your post, she's just saying that men should wait until they are middle aged to be fathers and that opinion is likely coming from her own negative experience with her baby daddy and has nothing to do with you.

 

[Visionist]

Be righteous. If someone sings a song of bull$hit, put that b!tch in her place. It's even easier if you're in company and know the crowd will take your side. Be verbally aggressive without resorting to petty counter insults and assume an intimidating stance without being physically threatening.

I had some stuck up b!tch throw a hissy fit for handing my doctor a prescription that needed renewing, in the doctor's waiting room between them seeing their patients. She claimed I was skipping the queue and that my behaviour was outrageously rude. Yeah like I'm gonna sit for three hours or more waiting my turn on hideously uncomfortable church pews in the waiting room, just to hand in a slip of paper for two seconds. I pointed my hand at her and told her to first of all take off her shades if she wanted to address me, which she soon did after my attitude had scared her a little.

She was a pretty, mid thirties wavy brunette, for what that's worth.

 

[edegoge]

A few weeks of having fun with you, and if she gets you to knock her up she gets to have fun with you forever

No, she doesn't want to have sex without condom. And last week when I was off work she said she would be with me every day, then later she cut that down to one night only. I thought it was over because she scheduled other stuff all the time, I didn't text her and didn't get any text from her all this week, then Saturday she texted but she took forever to reply, then said she was tired and she was on her period or whatnot yada yada. Next week I work again every day. We've planned to meet tomorrow before I go to work in the evening and some time later in the week when her period is over a few hours between my sleep and work. And then after next week she goes back to her country, so that wasn't much time we spent together, mostly because she cut it down. I'm considering not meeting her tomorrow and not meeting her at all. B1tch texted me Saturday yet took up to an hour to reply almost every time even though she was home alone doing nothing. And because of her insults. Tomorrow we can't have sex anyway, that would have to wait until later in the week.

edit: So this weekend was the last two free days I had before she goes back to her country, and she knew that, if she hadn't forgotten. But Saturday and Sunday she didn't want to meet me, and not only that but she also took forever to reply. That and her insults is why I'm considering not meeting her again even though we said we would meet tomorrow and later in the week.

 

[devilkingx2]

No, she doesn't want to have sex without condom. And last week when I was off work she said she would be with me every day, then later she cut that down to one night only. I thought it was over because she scheduled other stuff all the time, I didn't text her and didn't get any text from her all this week, then Saturday she texted but she took forever to reply, then said she was tired and she was on her period or whatnot yada yada. Next week I work again every day. We've planned to meet tomorrow before I go to work in the evening and some time later in the week when her period is over a few hours between my sleep and work. And then after next week she goes back to her country, so that wasn't much time we spent together, mostly because she cut it down. I'm considering not meeting her tomorrow and not meeting her at all. B1tch texted me Saturday yet took up to an hour to reply almost every time even though she was home alone doing nothing. And because of her insults. Tomorrow we can't have sex anyway, that would have to wait until later in the week.

edit: So this weekend was the last two free days I had before she goes back to her country, and she knew that, if she hadn't forgotten. But Saturday and Sunday she didn't want to meet me, and not only that but she also took forever to reply. That and her insults is why I'm considering not meeting her again even though we said we would meet tomorrow and later in the week.

Suck it up and get the pvssy, you can spite her later when it's not potentially costing you sex

 

[edegoge]

why do you care whether her son is 7 or 10

Because the older her child is the younger the father was when they had it. She changed the age from 10 to 7 so the father would be a little older when they had it. Still was younger than I am now. When she understood that her tactic of changing the age of the child wasn't going to help much she started playing dumb, pretended she didn't understand the most basic English. When that too was an obvious failure she just said I was right, so she basically admitted that it had nothing to do with me being too young to have a child but that she just thought I'm unfit to be a father for whatever reason.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

For example a woman was in my home and told me I can't have children.

 

[ohrein]

I assume you'll accuse me of being a keyboard warrior but if a woman insults me, I smile and say "that's cute" then carry on with my life. The other way I handle insults is to laugh and say "you're probably right" and carry on with my life.

If someone "insults" me, as in, is saying something just to get a reaction and are having fun, I play off of it. If it's trying to actually hurt me, good luck. I know I'm a good person who tries his best. If it's something that's somewhat true, then I actually listen to what was said and ask questions. There's always a chance to learn.

 

[edegoge]

I assume you'll accuse me of being a keyboard warrior

Yeah, I don't believe you're the Jesus figure you claim to be.

 

[edegoge]

This woman also asked if I have any friends. And another time she jokingly said I was smart. These two things I found insulting too although less insulting than telling me I can't have a child. We had planned to meet this morning. I slept until noon, 2 pm now and I haven't bothered texting her, no text from her anyway. Serves her right I think, for her insults, for taking forever to reply lately and for her generally b1tchy behavior, some of which I haven't told about in this thread.

 

[Thatfeel21]

I'm over here smirking cuz you're really this upset and butthurt over this worthless woman. You will have no success with women if you make a big deal out of ish this light. If your end game is strictly banging her while she's in the country, why does anything she say "matter"?

 

[edegoge]

I'm over here smirking cuz you're really this upset and butthurt over this worthless woman. You will have no success with women if you make a big deal out of ish this light. If your end game is strictly banging her while she's in the country, why does anything she say "matter"?

Well, today we couldn't have sex anyway because she says she's on her period. We've planned to meet later in the week, trying to squeeze in a few hours between my sleep and my night shift work. Don't know if that will happen or not. Anyway I also broke my over 2 years long nofap last week so I'm not very horny, but I don't know maybe it's normal to have sex a few days after you've fapped. Also how much of taking forever to reply are you supposed to put up with? I feel like that's licking her boots.

 

[edegoge]

Just sent her "hey". Instantly regretted it.