"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What should she give me if I win?

lifeislearning

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I'm planning on taking a girl out for some drinks and then challenging her to a game of foosball to settle and old debate we have about who is a better foosball player when we're drunk. These challenges are always more fun when there is some type of wager involved.

She will probably want ice cream if she wins, but I was thinking of taking my reward to a higher and more risque level. Providing things are going well and we are both having fun, do you think it would be too forward to ask for a kiss or boob flash if I win? I almost prefer the flash option because its more funny and suprising, and if she agrees you know she's awesome.

Any other ideas? I was thinking a shoulder massage for me (booring), a dance (ie: other date, fun but nothing I will enjoy on this date), or a lap dance (very cool, big risk big reward situation).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think you should go ahead with the rewards you already wrote down there. A kiss is fine and flashing is great too.
 

lifeislearning

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At the very least those will get a laugh.
 

thedude4242

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WOW you created a count for this problem. this is a no-brainer. man if everyones women problems were only this easy.
 

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I guess I'm wondering how to escalate without being too sleazy.

I don't want to come off like one of those sleasy douches who hits on a 10 who won't even look at him, strikes out, and spends the rest of the night at the bar repeating, "Where are all the hot chicks at?" as they dance all around him, oblivious to the sad sack he is.

So enlighten me to the no-brainer good sir!
Ok, maybe I'm in no danger of that, but I usually escalate slowly but constantly until she can't stand waiting any longer and attacks me. It doesn't always work, but when it does the girl turns into a hurricane of sex and nothing is off bounds. I would like to start initiating contact myself, and it is new territory for me.

Enlighten me to this no-brainer sir!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ENIGMA16

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Just go for a kiss, then give her an awesome kiss. That's what I'd do.
 

thedude4242

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keep mentioning what am I going to get if I win. maybe what she wants will be worth losing for. flirt around and talk to her and then see how its goes.
 
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