"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What should she give me if I win?

lifeislearning

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I'm planning on taking a girl out for some drinks and then challenging her to a game of foosball to settle and old debate we have about who is a better foosball player when we're drunk. These challenges are always more fun when there is some type of wager involved.

She will probably want ice cream if she wins, but I was thinking of taking my reward to a higher and more risque level. Providing things are going well and we are both having fun, do you think it would be too forward to ask for a kiss or boob flash if I win? I almost prefer the flash option because its more funny and suprising, and if she agrees you know she's awesome.

Any other ideas? I was thinking a shoulder massage for me (booring), a dance (ie: other date, fun but nothing I will enjoy on this date), or a lap dance (very cool, big risk big reward situation).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think you should go ahead with the rewards you already wrote down there. A kiss is fine and flashing is great too.
 

lifeislearning

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At the very least those will get a laugh.
 

thedude4242

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WOW you created a count for this problem. this is a no-brainer. man if everyones women problems were only this easy.
 

lifeislearning

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I guess I'm wondering how to escalate without being too sleazy.

I don't want to come off like one of those sleasy douches who hits on a 10 who won't even look at him, strikes out, and spends the rest of the night at the bar repeating, "Where are all the hot chicks at?" as they dance all around him, oblivious to the sad sack he is.

So enlighten me to the no-brainer good sir!
Ok, maybe I'm in no danger of that, but I usually escalate slowly but constantly until she can't stand waiting any longer and attacks me. It doesn't always work, but when it does the girl turns into a hurricane of sex and nothing is off bounds. I would like to start initiating contact myself, and it is new territory for me.

Enlighten me to this no-brainer sir!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ENIGMA16

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Just go for a kiss, then give her an awesome kiss. That's what I'd do.
 

thedude4242

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keep mentioning what am I going to get if I win. maybe what she wants will be worth losing for. flirt around and talk to her and then see how its goes.
 
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