"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What should one do?

iLoveCookies

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So I hooked up with this girl a while back, everything was going "well" and all of a sudden she stopped calling me. I wasn't too upset but still a little given that I actually did like her.

We talked once in a while, nothing too crazy, On Monday, I get an e-mail from her saying that she wants my phone number since her phone is broken. I affored to give her my old phone. The phone is not old, it just happened that I got a new phone recentley. I didn't give it to her because I thought it would help me but because I am unfortunatley a nice person. I would have done the same for almost everyone (aside from some random stranger on the street)

Now she wants to hang out, she wanted to hang out last night, I decline simply because I was a) not in the mood b) entirely way too tiered c) had to be up early. (These seem like poor excuses but please be advised that they are infact modest and if you need further details go ahead and make fun of me )

We made tenative plans of Saturday and I am wondering if I even should bother.... I mean I guess I could just push to get some ass and thats it. I would be happy if a relationship actually happened but I have no desire to get my heart broken or any of that nonsense.

suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wot?!?!
Sooooooo you want her or you dont..... i dont understand the point?

If your asking if you should get with her or not, how should anyone know... its up to you.. and if your not going to do it because you dont want your heart broken than thats just fckin stoopid. You gotta get out there and not worry about that sh!t, otherwise, everytime you think of getting with a chick, you wont, because you'll be too afraid.
You need to get sum guzzangas and get over that sh!t.
If its really hard and your finding it difficult to get over then just dont get attached.... hell... it'll might even help you bag her because she'll always be trying to get your attention cause she'll be confused as to y u dont like her more.
 

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did not get you man...seems you dont wanna any drama huh..i guess you are scaring to get into new relationship.. give a shot man.. dont worry its just a game..
 

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I have no idea what you are asking. You sound like a female thinking out loud honestly.
 

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flexion_ said:
I have no idea what you are asking. You sound like a female thinking out loud honestly.
lmao

x2!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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iLoveCookies said:
... I would be happy if a relationship actually happened but I have no desire to get my heart broken or any of that nonsense.

suggestions?
You sound like a girl!!! And by your username I take it that you are!::rolleyes:
 

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Ok let me clear things up a) Not a girl, I just love cookies (its an inside joke sorry)

b) like i stated above, she plays games, and I am at that point in my life where I dont have time or the desire to play any games.

I guess I just need to not get attached, I think the easiet way to do that is just to fish with a dozen fishing poles that way I wont spend tooo much time thinking about her.
 
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Cookie dude, I was referring to your "I don't want my heartbroken" statement - only women say dribble like that!!!! Your "heart" should only break for your wife and your mother. All the women who open their legs to you (who are not your wife) is a hor and thus it is not a matter of the heart but of sex!! Learn this NOW or else you'll take a beating in life!!!
 
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