"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

What should i say?

crazyman11

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
90
Reaction score
0
Alright, so here's the problem. My girl wants to know what the furthest i went with a girl was, so i didnt know what to say so i changed the subject. I know shes gonna ask me what it was again, so what should i tell her? Should i tell her the truth & say that i've never done anything with a girl? Or should i just pull a fast one and say that i've made out with a girl? Would she think less of me if i told her i've never done anything with a girl?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

faiNt`

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 22, 2008
Messages
243
Reaction score
1
I'm not sure if this is right, but I've been told mystery is key, so maybe not telling her anything and keep her guessing would be best.

I made the mistake of telling a girl who I liked how far first time she asked, basically ended the mystery factor of that. =\
 

splinterkb

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
750
Reaction score
4
Age
40
Location
Minnesota
Telling her the truth will be more important than your past sexual experiences probably.. unless she's super shallow. She's already your girl though so I wouldn't be worried about it. She obviously likes you for reasons other than that so just be honest.
 

crazyman11

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
90
Reaction score
0
hhmm, i think i'll just hint torwards doing nothing. I'll just say something like "Not as far as you think" haha. Yea, i think that should work. Thx guys
 
Top