"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What should i say?

crazyman11

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Alright, so here's the problem. My girl wants to know what the furthest i went with a girl was, so i didnt know what to say so i changed the subject. I know shes gonna ask me what it was again, so what should i tell her? Should i tell her the truth & say that i've never done anything with a girl? Or should i just pull a fast one and say that i've made out with a girl? Would she think less of me if i told her i've never done anything with a girl?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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faiNt`

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I'm not sure if this is right, but I've been told mystery is key, so maybe not telling her anything and keep her guessing would be best.

I made the mistake of telling a girl who I liked how far first time she asked, basically ended the mystery factor of that. =\
 

splinterkb

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Telling her the truth will be more important than your past sexual experiences probably.. unless she's super shallow. She's already your girl though so I wouldn't be worried about it. She obviously likes you for reasons other than that so just be honest.
 

crazyman11

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hhmm, i think i'll just hint torwards doing nothing. I'll just say something like "Not as far as you think" haha. Yea, i think that should work. Thx guys
 
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