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what should i say to her??

teedo

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so, last nite i hung out with this girl from work, we were chilling at my place and it slowly moved on and on, and then this happened
what should i say to this girl when i see her at work again?? this was the first time i ever saw her outside of work
:confused: :confused:
 

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check_mate_kid_uk

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jokingly say "next time your gona have to do a better job of turning me on"
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
jokingly say "next time your gona have to do a better job of turning me on"
I like this response!
 

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anything else?? i figure ill probably just act like nothing happened.
 

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you do not need to make a big deal of it like they say "do not make a big dela out of anytinhg untill it is somthing" it was no big deal but if you pretend it never happened then that could be uncomfterble. When you see her you should say the line i told you to say earlyer, more a less straight away with in a minute or so, and then explain the truth, ie what you mentioned in the post.

hope iv been a help
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why in the world would you act like nothing happened? You ****ed her and your going to just act like nothing happened?
 

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^maybe she was asleep?;)

j/k.
Sucks bro. take their advice.
 

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Originally posted by RaMar
why in the world would you act like nothing happened? You ****ed her and your going to just act like nothing happened?
yah, i hung out wid her once and i ****ed her. shes a slut. why would i want to go out with her?? shes a classic **** and chuck buddy. if you lived closer id hook you up :D
so yeah, i just acted like nothing happened and talked to her just like i did before, and she was like "hey, you get off at the same time as me tommorow, we shud go over to my house after so we can drink and party". then this other girl i work with says "aww____, you're gonna sleep with her??" so i was like "noooo....:rolleyes: "
 
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