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What should I say to girls on the street?

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SO, im gonna go out late at night...obvioulsy weekend Im gonna walk speicfically past girls alone or 2s etc..my age, cute looking.

Maybe I ask them for smoke? for directions?

Maybe I just say her your cute wher ya going? wanna meet up later?

etc...

what you think?

I sometimes walk passed girls and see them look/smile at me. Dunno what that means though, how likely they for sex.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I just need to say this... I think that if you over-analyse, can't control yourself, you are really wasting tons of energy that is stored in your body. That will cause you a ton of problems... Stress is really bad for lots of things, your sex life and all. It wastes precious energy, it's easier to prevent it then to reverse it's ill effects on your body. So caaallmmm down once in a while... You have to interact calmness with action. Sings your mind is weak, are, for example, it wonders a lot and you can't stop it, you aren't strong enough to stop your mind from wandering the same topic over and over again! Ok? I myself get into lots of cycles. But it's something i've noticed. I'm pretty weak and confused mentally sometimes. But it improves much when I do Tai Chi, sleep well, eat well, and also, when I am able to stop myself, next time it's easier. Cool huh? I hope this helps you...

Next, it's not what you say it, but how you say it! I think that if you are cool from the INSIDE then you will naturally know what to say. I have to go, will write more later. But in the meanwhile I hope you think about what I wrote! Cya, peace. :)
 
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Groovy said:
I just need to say this... I think that if you over-analyse, can't control yourself, you are really wasting tons of energy that is stored in your body. That will cause you a ton of problems... Stress is really bad for lots of things, your sex life and all. It wastes precious energy, it's easier to prevent it then to reverse it's ill effects on your body. So caaallmmm down once in a while... You have to interact calmness with action. Sings your mind is weak, are, for example, it wonders a lot and you can't stop it, you aren't strong enough to stop your mind from wandering the same topic over and over again! Ok? I myself get into lots of cycles. But it's something i've noticed. I'm pretty weak and confused mentally sometimes. But it improves much when I do Tai Chi, sleep well, eat well, and also, when I am able to stop myself, next time it's easier. Cool huh? I hope this helps you...

Next, it's not what you say it, but how you say it! I think that if you are cool from the INSIDE then you will naturally know what to say. I have to go, will write more later. But in the meanwhile I hope you think about what I wrote! Cya, peace. :)
I agree its more how you say it than what you say to an extent. But you still gotta say something lmao. Im pretty cool adn calm with the ladies I grew up and ahng around females a lot so that aint an issue.

However, Im a pretty quiet non sociable dude lmao.
 

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Yay another guy from ny on topic i normally like to talk to girls oN trains they normally are nicer the easiest ones EspeciallY if they are reading gives you a easy topic to talk about. What borough you live in? Cause in brooklyn girls are *****es. I get best results on trains bus and beaches.
 

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TheMale

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lol corrector

he's the biggest ******* i saw lately
 

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Give the guy a break. At least he's trying. To be honest, if I was gonna do a cold approach on the street I'd start with a hello, how might you be this evening? Just try starting conversations with girls, a girls, old, young, ugly, gorgeous. Work on that and maybe even trying to get some e mails and numbers. You're gonna get rejected.... Alot at first. Apply some of the things from the articles section about cold approaches. Good luck
 
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