"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What should I say to girls on the street?

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SO, im gonna go out late at night...obvioulsy weekend Im gonna walk speicfically past girls alone or 2s etc..my age, cute looking.

Maybe I ask them for smoke? for directions?

Maybe I just say her your cute wher ya going? wanna meet up later?

etc...

what you think?

I sometimes walk passed girls and see them look/smile at me. Dunno what that means though, how likely they for sex.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Groovy

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I just need to say this... I think that if you over-analyse, can't control yourself, you are really wasting tons of energy that is stored in your body. That will cause you a ton of problems... Stress is really bad for lots of things, your sex life and all. It wastes precious energy, it's easier to prevent it then to reverse it's ill effects on your body. So caaallmmm down once in a while... You have to interact calmness with action. Sings your mind is weak, are, for example, it wonders a lot and you can't stop it, you aren't strong enough to stop your mind from wandering the same topic over and over again! Ok? I myself get into lots of cycles. But it's something i've noticed. I'm pretty weak and confused mentally sometimes. But it improves much when I do Tai Chi, sleep well, eat well, and also, when I am able to stop myself, next time it's easier. Cool huh? I hope this helps you...

Next, it's not what you say it, but how you say it! I think that if you are cool from the INSIDE then you will naturally know what to say. I have to go, will write more later. But in the meanwhile I hope you think about what I wrote! Cya, peace. :)
 
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Groovy said:
I just need to say this... I think that if you over-analyse, can't control yourself, you are really wasting tons of energy that is stored in your body. That will cause you a ton of problems... Stress is really bad for lots of things, your sex life and all. It wastes precious energy, it's easier to prevent it then to reverse it's ill effects on your body. So caaallmmm down once in a while... You have to interact calmness with action. Sings your mind is weak, are, for example, it wonders a lot and you can't stop it, you aren't strong enough to stop your mind from wandering the same topic over and over again! Ok? I myself get into lots of cycles. But it's something i've noticed. I'm pretty weak and confused mentally sometimes. But it improves much when I do Tai Chi, sleep well, eat well, and also, when I am able to stop myself, next time it's easier. Cool huh? I hope this helps you...

Next, it's not what you say it, but how you say it! I think that if you are cool from the INSIDE then you will naturally know what to say. I have to go, will write more later. But in the meanwhile I hope you think about what I wrote! Cya, peace. :)
I agree its more how you say it than what you say to an extent. But you still gotta say something lmao. Im pretty cool adn calm with the ladies I grew up and ahng around females a lot so that aint an issue.

However, Im a pretty quiet non sociable dude lmao.
 

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Yay another guy from ny on topic i normally like to talk to girls oN trains they normally are nicer the easiest ones EspeciallY if they are reading gives you a easy topic to talk about. What borough you live in? Cause in brooklyn girls are *****es. I get best results on trains bus and beaches.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheMale

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lol corrector

he's the biggest ******* i saw lately
 

dereklovesugly

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Give the guy a break. At least he's trying. To be honest, if I was gonna do a cold approach on the street I'd start with a hello, how might you be this evening? Just try starting conversations with girls, a girls, old, young, ugly, gorgeous. Work on that and maybe even trying to get some e mails and numbers. You're gonna get rejected.... Alot at first. Apply some of the things from the articles section about cold approaches. Good luck
 
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