"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what should I say to explain myself to this girl?

stubbornlights

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Hey,
A few days ago at university, I walked past the girl that I'm into while she was studying. I noticed her, and I'm pretty sure she noticed me, but it was one of those moments where you both pretend you didn't.

What can I say that will be effective, intriguing, and catch her interest? We haven't seen each other in a while, we've been communicating via email. The last email I got from her was, paraphrased, "I'm surprised we never bump into each other." She also sortof suggested I go to a concert she was going to.

The reason I didn't approach her was due to a strained voice from singing (I was technically a mute on that day). Do I mention that in the email as justification? Some sort of C&F using my voice injury? What would you write an email like in this instance, especially in an attempt to subtly move away from email communication to a face to face environment?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blinkwatt

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Dump the email stuff and get her number and hook up with her in person. If you like the concert that she suggested you go to,then go to it. Get to know her kino it up. If she knows who you are then just go up to her and say, "hey there little lady". Follow up with the open ended questions,"Hows it going?" or "Hows your day today?". If she wants you around she will talk her head off or ask you how your day was. Good Luck! We can only suggest what you should do,its up to you to do it.
 

Warlord

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