"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what should I say to explain myself to this girl?

stubbornlights

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Hey,
A few days ago at university, I walked past the girl that I'm into while she was studying. I noticed her, and I'm pretty sure she noticed me, but it was one of those moments where you both pretend you didn't.

What can I say that will be effective, intriguing, and catch her interest? We haven't seen each other in a while, we've been communicating via email. The last email I got from her was, paraphrased, "I'm surprised we never bump into each other." She also sortof suggested I go to a concert she was going to.

The reason I didn't approach her was due to a strained voice from singing (I was technically a mute on that day). Do I mention that in the email as justification? Some sort of C&F using my voice injury? What would you write an email like in this instance, especially in an attempt to subtly move away from email communication to a face to face environment?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blinkwatt

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Dump the email stuff and get her number and hook up with her in person. If you like the concert that she suggested you go to,then go to it. Get to know her kino it up. If she knows who you are then just go up to her and say, "hey there little lady". Follow up with the open ended questions,"Hows it going?" or "Hows your day today?". If she wants you around she will talk her head off or ask you how your day was. Good Luck! We can only suggest what you should do,its up to you to do it.
 

Warlord

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