What should I reply from her messages? Thread

[amaterasu]

Hi all.

Why don't we post the conversations that we currently have with a woman, and ask anyone who's interested here to participate of what you think I should reply to her?

I thought this would be fun and helpful too, so ill start it off with this chick that I new before on facebook but only met her for the first time in an event.

During the event, with her boyfriend:

Chick: Hey, I see you are the photographer of this event, may I request some photos of me?

Me: Yes, ill send it to the organizer and she'll send it to you.

Chick: But you can send it to me on facebook.

Me: Ok no problem.

After the Event, pmd me on facebook:

Chick: Hi Goodmorning, do you have the pictures?

Me: ill just send it to you here on fb once I finished editing all of it

Chick: Ok.

The next morning chick suddenly asks:

Chick: Hi, I didn't know that you were friends with my boyfriend. Since when? long time ago?

Me: He just added me on facebook yesterday, but I can see that you are not friends with him on facebook? why?

Chick: Oh, we are totally on a war mode, we are not ok together. He is now my ex.

I was just shocked when he suddenly appeared there.

Me: Oh I see, war? really? hehe. Then why does he know you are there on that event.

Chick: Because I already told him when we're still together.

Me: Oh ok, here are the pictures btw, what do you think?

Chick: Yehey! Absolutely wonderful!


What do you think DJs?

What's your reply if you were me?

 

[resilient]

Chick: Oh, we are totally on a war mode, we are not ok together. He is now my ex.

Get her out on a date ASAP. @Glassguy would probably know a good line / date offer to seal the deal for a date. Don't waste time on this one. She wants a new man.

 

[amaterasu]

Get her out on a date ASAP. @Glassguy would probably know a good line / date offer to seal the deal for a date. Don't waste time on this one. She wants a new man.

Ok, but I want to know how would you respond too if you were in my shoes?

Just give it a try

 

[Glassguy]

"Hey I gotta run but I would like to keep the conversation going. Why dont we meet up at ______ at ___pm on _______day and grab a quick drink".

Dont use a question mark at the end.

 

[Glassguy]

Or if you really want to go for the kill:

"Glad you liked them. I did notice that you have a very nice (smile, eyes, etc) when I edited the pics . I am super busy and gotta run, but I am going to head over to _____for a quick drink ____night around _____pm. Why dont you head over and we will grab a drink and resume this conversation there".

 

[resilient]

Ok, but I want to know how would you respond too if you were in my shoes?

Just give it a try

I like Glass response with his time constraint and conveying being busy / less available.

The more direct you are with specifics, the more you lead as a man. Women don't want a wishy-washy guy. They want a guy who knows what he wants and goes after it.

If you're near a beach or a scenic place, I would invite her out to a shoot and then tell her you'll take her to your favorite local place to eat/drink.

"Hey my schedule is full this week, yet I'm doing a quick shoot for a client that needs some stock photos for her brochure, why don't you meet me at __ day at ___am/pm, and we can get a bite/drink to eat at my favorite local spot."

The whole point is to ask her out on a date while her interest level is high. She won't think you're confident or interested in her if you don't move on it.

 

[amaterasu]

Or if you really want to go for the kill:

"Glad you liked them. I did notice that you have a very nice (smile, eyes, etc) when I edited the pics . I am super busy and gotta run, but I am going to head over to _____for a quick drink ____night around _____pm. Why dont you head over and we will grab a drink and resume this conversation there".

Thanks Glass!

Looks like you're the go to guy when it come to bait lines.

I'll keep in touch with you

 

[That_dude]

Solid approach to this

 

[Glassguy]

Thanks Glass!

Looks like you're the go to guy when it come to bait lines.

I'll keep in touch with you

I never look at them as bait lines. I just state what I want and they either accept or decline. And I'm good either way