"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WHat should i have done?

AlphaNoob

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Well i got rejected a long time ago by this girl and she said sorry and that shes stupid for playing with my emotions and stuff. But im an idiot and i just keep on replying np or its fine. But now the prolly thinks i have no self respect bc of that. Im aware that this is a major turn off for girls, but just for future references, how exactly should i have replied to that and dealt with this situation like a DJ.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Demonpenz

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Tell her to have sex with you and add it to your lay report.
 

R.C

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Doesn't really matter what you say but what you project.

I had that happen. All I said is 'Don't worry about it , it's ok" , with a confident smile on my face.

So I didn't project self-pity of lack or respect ,but that her actions were not remotely strong enough to shake me and so little that they didn't even piss me off.

She was seriously impressed by my 'strength' and said she feels so 'inferior in my presence', as she called it.


So yeah,it's all about projection. Say whatever you want , just handle yourself respectably.
 

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You act all butt hurt and act like your chest hurts so bad because she really broke your heart, then you put on a **** eating grin.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AlphaNoob

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Kbomb said:
You act all butt hurt and act like your chest hurts so bad because she really broke your heart, then you put on a **** eating grin.
sorry i dont understand what your trying to say
 
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