"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WHat should i have done?

AlphaNoob

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Well i got rejected a long time ago by this girl and she said sorry and that shes stupid for playing with my emotions and stuff. But im an idiot and i just keep on replying np or its fine. But now the prolly thinks i have no self respect bc of that. Im aware that this is a major turn off for girls, but just for future references, how exactly should i have replied to that and dealt with this situation like a DJ.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Demonpenz

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Tell her to have sex with you and add it to your lay report.
 

R.C

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Doesn't really matter what you say but what you project.

I had that happen. All I said is 'Don't worry about it , it's ok" , with a confident smile on my face.

So I didn't project self-pity of lack or respect ,but that her actions were not remotely strong enough to shake me and so little that they didn't even piss me off.

She was seriously impressed by my 'strength' and said she feels so 'inferior in my presence', as she called it.


So yeah,it's all about projection. Say whatever you want , just handle yourself respectably.
 

Kbomb

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You act all butt hurt and act like your chest hurts so bad because she really broke your heart, then you put on a **** eating grin.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AlphaNoob

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Kbomb said:
You act all butt hurt and act like your chest hurts so bad because she really broke your heart, then you put on a **** eating grin.
sorry i dont understand what your trying to say
 
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