“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What should I have done in this situation?

Bonafide

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I leave the class... chick opens the door for me, sits in my seat playfully...I said

Ok now your trying to be me, I get it

:cry: what? I had nuthin else 2 say? :nervous:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

War Against Betaism

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The problem with people wanting to know what exactly to say in every situation is that they post a topic on sosuave asking people what they should have said, and then hope that a situation like that will happen to pop up again so they can use that line. Next thing you know they're back on sosuave making a new thread about another situation where they could have said something slick. Even if you did find something slick to say in that very situation, it is not like that girl is going to suddenly feel really attracted to you. If anything she will just find a little bit of interest to talk to you.

If you really want to make slick lines at every situation it is all about mindset. You are more likely to say something very slick if <i>you</i> think that you are the superior person. Notice how you can say a lot of clever things to your little brother or sister, or just kids in general and could care less what their reaction is? It is because you are the superior person just because you are older. Now just apply that to women.
 

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Man I love you man, your so raw. Make me smile man, I want to make love to you. Thanks.
 

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Nothing else, nothing more! ;) *clap clap*

My opinion in this is the same: the more you worrie, the slower you think, and so you take more time to think in a comeback! Think about it. Worring makes you nervous and all of that bad stuff... and we all know it just doesn't work this way!

Which means that if you don't worrie, you have more "brain" to think in what really matters, and you have more wit, and your game will flow a lot more naturally and better.

But! Instead of focusin on the words... Have you heard before that it's not what you say, it's how you say? How many times are we gonna continue typing it? :yawn:

You could have just said "Get out now or you're in trobule!" playfully and tickle her or something and it would be faaaaaaaar faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar better...

I guess you at least learned something ... and next time you'll know better. So props to you man. Hehe. :D
 

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Groovy said:
Nothing else, nothing more! ;) *clap clap*

My opinion in this is the same: the more you worrie, the slower you think, and so you take more time to think in a comeback! Think about it. Worring makes you nervous and all of that bad stuff... and we all know it just doesn't work this way!

Which means that if you don't worrie, you have more "brain" to think in what really matters, and you have more wit, and your game will flow a lot more naturally and better.

But! Instead of focusin on the words... Have you heard before that it's not what you say, it's how you say? How many times are we gonna continue typing it? :yawn:

You could have just said "Get out now or you're in trobule!" playfully and tickle her or something and it would be faaaaaaaar faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar better...

I guess you at least learned something ... and next time you'll know better. So props to you man. Hehe. :D
This is good, but I also think what you said was fine. Could have been like "yeah, I know you wanna be me....but you're not as cool ;) "
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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