"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What should I get her for her birthday?

Ice_Berg_1

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I'm in the early stages of dj'ing this chick, and her birthday has come up. Anybody have any suggestions of gift ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alpine

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Give her a solid good fvckin from behind with a large root vegetable.

Now that's a suprise!
 

RiceHapa888

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hahaha classic!
ok I will help. so by early stages how long? how far in are you? hitting home runs? fly balls, what?
 

Ice_Berg_1

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Early stages meaning, not. too much action yet. I haven't really tried yet though, but I go in for kino whenever I can, and she's always open towards it. I know that by NOT putting heavy moves on her is working to my benefit. She can't figure out why, and I think she's starting to feel insecure, she even told me I'm the first guy who didn't try to nail her on the first date but at the same time she seems to be more into me.
 
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