"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What should i get a girl so that she remembers me ?

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The girl i love is going abroad for 3-4 months (just finished college and is going to study abroad for a few months).

I want to give her something that she would remember me by.
A physical gift that she can take with her. Not something expensive - i'd like it to be just a token of my attention.
(her dad hand crafts jewelry btw, so she already has plenty of rings n stuff.)

Suggestions ?


p.s.
i thought about getting her a cute luxury soft toy.
what u think ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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honestly if she is leaving for 3-4 months and your as unsure of your self as you sound there might be a chance she will cheat.

So..

1st Step
Go to a photographer one of the ones that has makeup artist. Get him to take a few erotic pictures with you looking your best.
2nd Step
Go to a sex shop and buy her a vibrator/dildo or both (dont be cheap).
3d Step
Wrap them up in a box and on the card write:

Baby if you ever get the urge to cheat before you do anything run home and use these.


Then when shes about to leave give her the present and tell her not to open it yet.....

Ninja Out
 

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Unique gifts are excellent for putting your own personal dent in her memory. I did this by making a video for one of my GFs. The great thing is when she was thinking about me, she'd watch the video. That's pretty much why she came back for a second time (and attempted a third).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Jariel
If you need to give her something to make her remember you, it's doomed already.
what is doomed ?

i asked a specific question - i didnt ask for a fvcking relationship advice.

morons.
 
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
honestly if she is leaving for 3-4 months and your as unsure of your self as you sound there might be a chance she will cheat.
another idiot.

what makes you think im unsure of myself ?
what the hell do you know about her to assume she's going to cheat ?

enjoying your hoes much, tard ?
 

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cut of your penis and soak it with vinegar. Let it dry for 1 hour then soak it in melted chocolate. Let it sit in the refrigerator for 2 hours. Sell it on Ebay. RAPE A CAT!
 

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The fact that you had to ask a question like this shows that you are unsure of yourself. If you had any balls you would go buy her a vibrator or whatever you wanted.

The question itself reveals your insecurities and when a girl is with a insecure man she is likely to latch on to a stronger man. You better hope she’s not coming to Sydney.

Ninja Out
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Also, the fact that you are so defensive shows that you're unsure about whether you are "correct" or not. Let's see, if you love her, and she's going away, and she loves you, then she doesn't need anything. (Or you can get her the dildo, that would be hilarious).
You need to read the DJ bible before you talk in here. This thread will probably be closed since you're basically trolling...
 

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I gave my girl a shell I caught while surf fishing. She made it into a cool hemp necklace. She won't be forgetting me anytime soon...
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
I gave my girl a shell I caught while surf fishing. She made it into a cool hemp necklace. She won't be forgetting me anytime soon...
Cough Hippie cough

Ninja Out
 

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when i was 17 i loved this girl so much.

i killed her dog, severed his head, put it on her porch and left the note

"you'll always be mine, Quest"

like, it wasn't a weird note, it was written in caligraphy you know? so it was ok.

i'm nearly 22 now, and every month she still remembers to renew the restraining order against me.

I have the feeling she'll never forget.

but as soon as she does........
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by quest
when i was 17 i loved this girl so much.

i killed her dog, severed his head, put it on her porch and left the note

"you'll always be mine, Quest"

like, it wasn't a weird note, it was written in caligraphy you know? so it was ok.

i'm nearly 22 now, and every month she still remembers to renew the restraining order against me.

I have the feeling she'll never forget.

but as soon as she does........

rofl hahahaha quest you crack me up hahahahahaha
 

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Pen Kitten: You'll agree with anyone!!!

If your chick is hot and she's gonna go overseas for a long time, the chances of her cheating are almost a certainty... Its just something you are going to have to accept.. Let her go, and when she comes back, act as tho nothing happened... You don't need to know..

I've seen friends get engaged, giving of rings, you name it, and still it doesn't prevent them from cheating... The only exception was if the girl is a virgin with her hymen intact.

If she was really in love with you, then she wouldn't have decided to go in the first place..
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
rofl hahahaha quest you crack me up hahahahahaha
i wish you were the judge in my case...
 

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Pen Kitten: You'll agree with anyone!!!

heh
no i wouldnt

i did agree with jariel because no magic gift or stuffed toy is going to make her remember him. she will remember him in her heart and he will be in her head if she loves him. basically that is what jariel said .
 

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Originally posted by quest
i wish you were the judge in my case...
i'd renew the restraining order , but chuckle when i did it:cheer:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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