"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What should I do?

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This girl in the beginning confess she had a crush on me and she told me how much she really like me. Now after three weeks we have been having a greatime and getting along so well until this day. We went to the movies and just when I was about to buy a ticket, she ask me to take her home. Now every day, she is gettting more distant with me. I ask her what is the problem, she replied.."Nothing is wrong!" If I call her in the morning, Ill get the call later in the evening or the following next day...


Should I stop calling her?

Let her call me?

Let her make plans about going out?


Steve:confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First of all do you even like this girl?

If so did you make a move or just continue how things were before?

If not, then why do you care if she's distant or not?

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I made the move.. And I do care about this girl..

I think she is playing the game!
 
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OneArmDeeJay

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Ok somewhere between the three weeks you either screwed up or the chick is no longer into you.

Just curious when she said she had a crush on you, what did you do?

And what happen between then and now?
 
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