"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What should I do?

Tigger

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This girl in the beginning confess she had a crush on me and she told me how much she really like me. Now after three weeks we have been having a greatime and getting along so well until this day. We went to the movies and just when I was about to buy a ticket, she ask me to take her home. Now every day, she is gettting more distant with me. I ask her what is the problem, she replied.."Nothing is wrong!" If I call her in the morning, Ill get the call later in the evening or the following next day...


Should I stop calling her?

Let her call me?

Let her make plans about going out?


Steve:confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OneArmDeeJay

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First of all do you even like this girl?

If so did you make a move or just continue how things were before?

If not, then why do you care if she's distant or not?

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Tigger

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I made the move.. And I do care about this girl..

I think she is playing the game!
 

OneArmDeeJay

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Ok somewhere between the three weeks you either screwed up or the chick is no longer into you.

Just curious when she said she had a crush on you, what did you do?

And what happen between then and now?
 
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