There is this girl that I have known for 3 years. She has never given me a second look until this year(im a freshman). Now i find her looking at me, giggling with her friends behind my back, the whole 9.also i want to know if the whole "pupil" thing is true i hear alot of mixed opinions. does she like me? If so what do i do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What should i do?
- Thread starter ZLMan440
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
the question is, do you like her? if so then put a move on her brother! shouldn't be hard since she obviously isn't doing a lot of work to hide her intentions, since you have noticed them (giggling behind your back, looking at you etc)
Don Corleone
Don Juan
she either likes you or thinks you look funny.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
yeah. Go up there and talk to her. You're not going to know if she'll like you unless you go up there and talk to her.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Now ask her out.Originally posted by ZLMan440
i do talk to her, now more then ever
You then get 1 of 3 responses:
1. Yes. In which case have fun and learn.
2. No. In which case you instantly get over her and start looking for other girls.
3. Maybe. In which case you act the same as if it was no.
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make another post about it. oh wai...