There is this girl that I have known for 3 years. She has never given me a second look until this year(im a freshman). Now i find her looking at me, giggling with her friends behind my back, the whole 9.also i want to know if the whole "pupil" thing is true i hear alot of mixed opinions. does she like me? If so what do i do?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What should i do?
- Thread starter ZLMan440
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
the question is, do you like her? if so then put a move on her brother! shouldn't be hard since she obviously isn't doing a lot of work to hide her intentions, since you have noticed them (giggling behind your back, looking at you etc)
Don Corleone
Don Juan
she either likes you or thinks you look funny.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
yeah. Go up there and talk to her. You're not going to know if she'll like you unless you go up there and talk to her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Now ask her out.Originally posted by ZLMan440
i do talk to her, now more then ever
You then get 1 of 3 responses:
1. Yes. In which case have fun and learn.
2. No. In which case you instantly get over her and start looking for other girls.
3. Maybe. In which case you act the same as if it was no.
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make another post about it. oh wai...