There is this girl that I have known for 3 years. She has never given me a second look until this year(im a freshman). Now i find her looking at me, giggling with her friends behind my back, the whole 9.also i want to know if the whole "pupil" thing is true i hear alot of mixed opinions. does she like me? If so what do i do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What should i do?
- Thread starter ZLMan440
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
the question is, do you like her? if so then put a move on her brother! shouldn't be hard since she obviously isn't doing a lot of work to hide her intentions, since you have noticed them (giggling behind your back, looking at you etc)
Don Corleone
Don Juan
she either likes you or thinks you look funny.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
yeah. Go up there and talk to her. You're not going to know if she'll like you unless you go up there and talk to her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Now ask her out.Originally posted by ZLMan440
i do talk to her, now more then ever
You then get 1 of 3 responses:
1. Yes. In which case have fun and learn.
2. No. In which case you instantly get over her and start looking for other girls.
3. Maybe. In which case you act the same as if it was no.
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make another post about it. oh wai...