What should I do...

[gym addict]

Hello all,

I've lerked on these boards for a while absorbing knowledge (referred by bodybuilding.com forum) and I must say this stuff has changed me alot (in a good way).

Anyway, back to the meat of the post. Back a while ago when I was extremely AFC, I went out with this chick and it went well for a while but then we broke up. I hadn't seen her for a good year or so, but these past months Ive been running in to her alot more often at summer school, malls, movies etc...anyway, she hadn't seen me in a while and since then I really changed myself (more DJ style) and she noticed it and pointed it out that before I was really quiet and shy and now I've changed and Im more outgoing blah blah blah. Anyway, for the past couple months, she's been talking to me alot (calling, IMing) asking me to go to the movies, shop etc. Well recently I found out from a mutual friend that she just broke up with her bf 1 week ago in hopes that we could get together. Now, I don't have serious feelings for her but I'm wondering if i should let her have another chance again and maybe just have some fun or if I should just ignore her advances. Keep in mind i dont have much to any feelings for her except as a friend.

 

[DJoneday]

If she noticed the changes that much, then you probably have the potential to go out and do better than her, plus seeing you going out with other chicks would drive her crazy, should you want to pick it up later.

 

[abcd_z]

If you don't have any romantic interest in her, you could try putting her in her place and tell her "let's just be friends".

 

[gym addict]

Yea the change was quite drastic I think, most of the people that know me say Im like a totally different person now which i think is a good thing. I'm most likely gonna next her and keep her on the side to see if I want something later and go for better things