"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spp27

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im 28 years old not very experienced with woman.
so I met a girl at work she always come to get food when she works same days with me I never start the interaction its her. have been talking to her for 6mth maybe little more she tell me everything about here school work never brings up a boyfriend ever. we have lots of similar interest movies and more. we have a real connection so I have asked here out 2 times one time she said the has school and second same day came in said she has a funeral to got to. found out that it was real. so after a while I tried to add her on facebook she never accepeted. after a while I see that she resently added a pic of here and a guy as her new profile pic. so I blew it somehow. she still talks to me like always and never brings up bf.

my question is what did I do wrong? 2nd what should I do now not continues going to get food with here whats the best thing I should do.
it sucks we had a real connection and can talk about anything don't get out much so I don't meet girls that often. thanks for the advise .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blind_one

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You are in friend zone.

Read the DJ Bible, it should solve most of your problems and put in on the right path.

As for that girl, just treat her normally.
 

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Spp27 said:
im 28 years old not very experienced with woman.
so I met a girl at work she always come to get food when she works same days with me I never start the interaction its her. have been talking to her for 6mth maybe little more she tell me everything about here school work never brings up a boyfriend ever. we have lots of similar interest movies and more. we have a real connection so I have asked here out 2 times one time she said the has school and second same day came in said she has a funeral to got to. found out that it was real. so after a while I tried to add her on facebook she never accepeted. after a while I see that she resently added a pic of here and a guy as her new profile pic. so I blew it somehow. she still talks to me like always and never brings up bf.

my question is what did I do wrong? 2nd what should I do now not continues going to get food with here whats the best thing I should do.
it sucks we had a real connection and can talk about anything don't get out much so I don't meet girls that often. thanks for the advise .
She saw you as a quiet, shy, nice guy that she can talk to.
 

GS750

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unfortunately you are very much in the friendzone. You asked her to get together twice, and she politely rejected you twice. And she rejected your FB request. Forget this one and move on.
 

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Thanks I have already asked not to work the night I usually work with here said I have school to go to so I won't see here it will make me feel a bit better so I will rarely see here if any.

I one was taking to here and she pretty much turned around and pointed the ass at me and then brought up later she wasn't doing anything on Saturday was this my last time to ask her out and after that she wrote me off?

Just a quick question if u meet a girl is it better to ask her out right away how soon or try too build a good conversation talk to here for a while before you ask here just wondering if I Dident wait so long would I have had a chance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El Payaso

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Damn. She rejected you to go to a "funeral". File this one under done and dusted.

Red the DJ Bible. Work on your self esteem. Improve yourself.

It is all generic advice but it's the only way forward.
 
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