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oneboy21

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A question for you guys?
I met girl at the coffee store, i opened her up asking what is she studying, she said she is looking for a job. I talked to her for a while, suggested few places where she can contact for a job. she felt good and happy about my suggestions and thanked me for that. She is a solid 8

We talked about other normal stuff, in the mean while i never hit on her, i did some kino, she mentioned her name and asked for mine. she told me she goes to church and may invite me to church this weekend( she is not that religious).
i told ok and gave my email address, i told her i am hungry and asked her to join for, for which she said she just ate big breakfast and coffee, she didn't come.

She sent me an email thanking for helping her and also told me she will inform if she goes to church.

Should i reply to her email or should i just ignore this chic even if she sends an email asking met o come to church, what you guys think.
 

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Why would you ignore it? You went through the effort of talking to her to ignore her? Cancel Sunday, get her number, meet her for a drink in the week. The church isn't the best place for a date...
 

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Are you religious?

I'm kinda a recovering AFC, haha, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

But, if you're religious and looking for a religious girl (I couldn't tell if you meant she isn't or you aren't religious), I'd say go to church with her and then afterwards grab some brunch/Sunday lunch.

Also, why would you give a girl your email address? I would've suggested phone...

Or, what the other poster said - cancel on Sunday, meet up with her during the week.
 

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I am not religious neither does she
we were talking about different things and church topic came up, she mentioned that she would like to email, so i gave my email. In the whole 30 minute conversation i never hit on her. btw she is a christian and i am hindu, different religions.
So what you guys think
 

oneboy21

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I am not religious neither does she
we were talking about different things and church topic came up, she mentioned that she would like to email, so i gave my email. In the whole 30 minute conversation i never hit on her. btw she is a christian and i am hindu, different religions.
So what you guys think
 

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