"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What should i do?

duffman360

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So im in college now and i met this girl that is in my english class when i met her i thought to myself i just want her as a friend, but last friday i was hanging out wit her in the cafeteria. while we were talking she started to grow on me which is strange for me since, that is the first time that i've started becoming attracted to a friend. I also noticed that she started asking me random questions about myself like what is my last name and background. While i was joking around she said things like i wish i knew you more. So i am debating if i want to make her more than a friend or keep her as just a friend. In a way i think about starting to flirt with her just for the hell of it to see her reaction. So anyone let me hear some of your suggestions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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iliketennis

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yeah of course you want more and you should go for it. sure she isn't as hot as a girl who you'd want, but you have to start somewhere. she definitely likes you so this is perfect!

go for it!
 

ken chang

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There are many ways to test her if she's really into you. You can find lots in the DJ bible. Ask her out. If she keeps making excuses not to go, then just keep her as a friend.
 
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