"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What should i do?

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duffman360

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So im in college now and i met this girl that is in my english class when i met her i thought to myself i just want her as a friend, but last friday i was hanging out wit her in the cafeteria. while we were talking she started to grow on me which is strange for me since, that is the first time that i've started becoming attracted to a friend. I also noticed that she started asking me random questions about myself like what is my last name and background. While i was joking around she said things like i wish i knew you more. So i am debating if i want to make her more than a friend or keep her as just a friend. In a way i think about starting to flirt with her just for the hell of it to see her reaction. So anyone let me hear some of your suggestions.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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iliketennis

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yeah of course you want more and you should go for it. sure she isn't as hot as a girl who you'd want, but you have to start somewhere. she definitely likes you so this is perfect!

go for it!
 
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ken chang

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There are many ways to test her if she's really into you. You can find lots in the DJ bible. Ask her out. If she keeps making excuses not to go, then just keep her as a friend.
 
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