"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What should i do?

duffman360

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So im in college now and i met this girl that is in my english class when i met her i thought to myself i just want her as a friend, but last friday i was hanging out wit her in the cafeteria. while we were talking she started to grow on me which is strange for me since, that is the first time that i've started becoming attracted to a friend. I also noticed that she started asking me random questions about myself like what is my last name and background. While i was joking around she said things like i wish i knew you more. So i am debating if i want to make her more than a friend or keep her as just a friend. In a way i think about starting to flirt with her just for the hell of it to see her reaction. So anyone let me hear some of your suggestions.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iliketennis

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yeah of course you want more and you should go for it. sure she isn't as hot as a girl who you'd want, but you have to start somewhere. she definitely likes you so this is perfect!

go for it!
 

ken chang

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There are many ways to test her if she's really into you. You can find lots in the DJ bible. Ask her out. If she keeps making excuses not to go, then just keep her as a friend.
 
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