"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if a girl who you know is interested in you, stops talking to you for no reason, what should you do?

I'm in this situation. We're in the same math class. She seemed to be attracted to me. I know for a fact that she thinks that I look good (she told my friend that she thinks I'm hot).

We went out for lunch, I made her laugh, she had fun and all that. And then BOOM. all of a sudden she's not talkin to me. She seems to hate me.

She was telling something to her and my friends so I asked "what happened?" and she totally ignored my question. I mean, maybe I said something wrong. Maybe she's not attracted no more, I don't know. What should I do? Should I ask her if I've done something wrong? Or should I just let it go?

My friends say that I don't give her enough attention (and that's true). They think that she has strong feelings for me, but is afraid. Need advice, what should I do? :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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vato said:
if a girl who you know is interested in you, stops talking to you for no reason, what should you do?

I'm in this situation. We're in the same math class. She seemed to be attracted to me. I know for a fact that she thinks that I look good (she told my friend that she thinks I'm hot).

We went out for lunch, I made her laugh, she had fun and all that. And then BOOM. all of a sudden she's not talkin to me. She seems to hate me.

She was telling something to her and my friends so I asked "what happened?" and she totally ignored my question. I mean, maybe I said something wrong. Maybe she's not attracted no more, I don't know. What should I do? Should I ask her if I've done something wrong? Or should I just let it go?

My friends say that I don't give her enough attention (and that's true). They think that she has strong feelings for me, but is afraid. Need advice, what should I do? :(
Heres what you should do, you should ignore the sh1t out of her right back unless and until she tries talking to you and you have to really mean it when you are ignoring her so that she realises that you value yourself as a human being and will not let the opinion or behaviours of other people affect you in any major way.

You will get on with your life and she will come grovelling back.......or not but either way who cares there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Oh yeah and when i say you should ignore her i mean you should get on with your life and hold no grudges against her for acting weird. Just enjoy life for what it is and make an effort to achieve big things in your academics and she will see that you are not outcome dependent or needy .Of course there is always the chance that she may have never really liked you to begin with and was just toying with you but who wants a girl like that anyway?
 
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vato said:
She was telling something to her and my friends so I asked "what happened?" and she totally ignored my question. I mean, maybe I said something wrong. Maybe she's not attracted no more, I don't know. What should I do? Should I ask her if I've done something wrong? Or should I just let it go?
In this case you should have been assertive (i.e stood up for yourself) and told her '' wow you just totally ignored me when i was asking you a question that is quite rude''.

check this thread out for the sections where i posted it will teach you the basics of assertiveness.
 
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