“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What should I do?

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aussiegoat55

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The situation is this one girl and I who I really clicked with is returning from college for the summer. You could say we broke up but it wasn't because of a lack of attraction or fights, it was because of fate/separate ways. I still like her and I'm somewhat confident she still has feelings for me. While in college we kept in touch and she mentioned very briefly she was dating someone, which I told her to date other people. In a few days she'll be returning, don't know exactly when, and I wanted to know how to handle the situation, if I should contact her to see if we can get together short term, or let her decide to contact me and have her let me know when she arrives. I haven't asked her when she is coming because I didn't want to come off as needy, desperate.

I know I'll get a few "just move on" responses and I have met other girls and got a few numbers, but it's not everyday you meet a great girl, and you shouldn't say to yourself especially when you find what you're looking for, "move on", "give up" because of some small obstacle.

The current plan is to show her that I've moved on and am dating other girls, but I would like to get together, though not long term. Basically let her contact me if she wants to see me again.

So any help, opinions would be appreciated, thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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aussiegoat55 said:
The current plan is to show her that I've moved on and am dating other girls, but I would like to get together, though not long term. Basically let her contact me if she wants to see me again.
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Keep seeing other girls, call her up on the phone, let her know that it'd be nice to catch up on all you guys have missed out on and maybe hang out sometime, maybe grab some dinner. Let her know that you're very busy though and you have a life besides her.
 
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foomee said:
Keep seeing other girls, call her up on the phone, let her know that it'd be nice to catch up on all you guys have missed out on and maybe hang out sometime, maybe grab some dinner. Let her know that you're very busy though and you have a life besides her.
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Agreed.
 
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