"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aussiegoat55

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The situation is this one girl and I who I really clicked with is returning from college for the summer. You could say we broke up but it wasn't because of a lack of attraction or fights, it was because of fate/separate ways. I still like her and I'm somewhat confident she still has feelings for me. While in college we kept in touch and she mentioned very briefly she was dating someone, which I told her to date other people. In a few days she'll be returning, don't know exactly when, and I wanted to know how to handle the situation, if I should contact her to see if we can get together short term, or let her decide to contact me and have her let me know when she arrives. I haven't asked her when she is coming because I didn't want to come off as needy, desperate.

I know I'll get a few "just move on" responses and I have met other girls and got a few numbers, but it's not everyday you meet a great girl, and you shouldn't say to yourself especially when you find what you're looking for, "move on", "give up" because of some small obstacle.

The current plan is to show her that I've moved on and am dating other girls, but I would like to get together, though not long term. Basically let her contact me if she wants to see me again.

So any help, opinions would be appreciated, thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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foomee

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aussiegoat55 said:
The current plan is to show her that I've moved on and am dating other girls, but I would like to get together, though not long term. Basically let her contact me if she wants to see me again.
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Keep seeing other girls, call her up on the phone, let her know that it'd be nice to catch up on all you guys have missed out on and maybe hang out sometime, maybe grab some dinner. Let her know that you're very busy though and you have a life besides her.
 
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foomee said:
Keep seeing other girls, call her up on the phone, let her know that it'd be nice to catch up on all you guys have missed out on and maybe hang out sometime, maybe grab some dinner. Let her know that you're very busy though and you have a life besides her.
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Agreed.
 
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