"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What should I do?

2easy

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I've been dating this girl for 3 months now, we recently talked she said the relationship was going well and she likes it but "we have too much sex". I always convince her to come over about twice a week to my place since she lives with her parents. She said she likes it but she thinks it's too much. How should I handle this situation, I don't want her control.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anomalous

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I must first ask you, what do you want out of this?

Do you want to keep fvcking her?

Do you want to stop, and have an emotional connection?

There is something you want, the reason why your confused is because you never thought about what you want. Think about that for a while then, I'll get back to you.

To be continued..
 

Phyzzle

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Most likely problem: do you guys do anything other than go to your house?

She wants to be seduced, not bored.
 

2easy

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what was I thinking, I see the light. I want to zoom zoom in her boom boom. She just wants control. We do go out once a week.
 
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