Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What should I do?

2easy

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I've been dating this girl for 3 months now, we recently talked she said the relationship was going well and she likes it but "we have too much sex". I always convince her to come over about twice a week to my place since she lives with her parents. She said she likes it but she thinks it's too much. How should I handle this situation, I don't want her control.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anomalous

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I must first ask you, what do you want out of this?

Do you want to keep fvcking her?

Do you want to stop, and have an emotional connection?

There is something you want, the reason why your confused is because you never thought about what you want. Think about that for a while then, I'll get back to you.

To be continued..
 

Phyzzle

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Most likely problem: do you guys do anything other than go to your house?

She wants to be seduced, not bored.
 

2easy

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what was I thinking, I see the light. I want to zoom zoom in her boom boom. She just wants control. We do go out once a week.
 
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