"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What should i do with my cash????
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Rhoto
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Or go paintballing. However, saving it would still be wiser. But paintballing is too much fun. So we have a conundrum.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Or save for a car!
I invest most of my money/time in my bike selling business. I'm a bike mechanic so I buy/sell bikes to make extra cash on the side. I basically just look for really good deals on used bikes, fix them up(if they need fixing) and then I sell them for higher making a profit.
I started out with a $250 bike, now I have a $6000 bike in my garage with an exta profit of about $2000 in my bank from buy/selling bikes.
Lifes goooooood...but business is getting slow as my bikes become more expensive for the ordinary consumers.
I guess I'm just gonna sell my current bike and then start over again with a **** load of cash.
^^do something like that. Use your money wisely.
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Is that a good idea?Triple T said:Invest it.
Or save for a car!
http://www.funnyflash.com/movies/i_cant_afford_my_gasoline/
Prices will go down soon.gösta berling said:
Just save up.
What goes up must come down. If not...
You can just use Natural Gas instead of gasoline. I hear it was about 65 cents a gallon in the US. Same mileage as gasoline too. (heard it over the radio on this discussion)
And you just plug your car into your home's natural gas system (fuels the stove,heater etc.), and it fuels up at home...and you drive away.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.