"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What should i do with my cash????
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Rhoto
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Or go paintballing. However, saving it would still be wiser. But paintballing is too much fun. So we have a conundrum.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Or save for a car!
I invest most of my money/time in my bike selling business. I'm a bike mechanic so I buy/sell bikes to make extra cash on the side. I basically just look for really good deals on used bikes, fix them up(if they need fixing) and then I sell them for higher making a profit.
I started out with a $250 bike, now I have a $6000 bike in my garage with an exta profit of about $2000 in my bank from buy/selling bikes.
Lifes goooooood...but business is getting slow as my bikes become more expensive for the ordinary consumers.
I guess I'm just gonna sell my current bike and then start over again with a **** load of cash.
^^do something like that. Use your money wisely.
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Is that a good idea?Triple T said:Invest it.
Or save for a car!
http://www.funnyflash.com/movies/i_cant_afford_my_gasoline/
Prices will go down soon.gösta berling said:
Just save up.
What goes up must come down. If not...
You can just use Natural Gas instead of gasoline. I hear it was about 65 cents a gallon in the US. Same mileage as gasoline too. (heard it over the radio on this discussion)
And you just plug your car into your home's natural gas system (fuels the stove,heater etc.), and it fuels up at home...and you drive away.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.