"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What should I do so she wont possibly scream at me? (not a noobie question)

zack77766

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her words are different but her body tells me GO.

Why is she doing this? This confuses me because you guys have always posted "watch a women's actions not her words". I'm not scared of getting blown out, just scared of being screamed at so please understand. I wont give up because it seems she likes me but I just want an explanation of this behavior. My theory is that I am overpowering emotionally (Im not playing lots of hot girls want a piece of me) but logically she has a bf (if he exists) and she doesnt know me. What should I do? I believe I found my dream girl and no im not pining over her. women arent an axis of my life. I even gave her a final chance to build rapport but she never really said yes or no to it (she just said she wasnt comfortable responding to me)

If you need clarification please ask. Im guessing maybe I should be a bit indirect like we could be friends and then escalate.
Some snippets of email: I have a bf, youre making me uncomfortable, I dont want to do anything with you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I havent done anything (I mean anything) wrong except forgetting to build rapport and qualify. I set the frame that she needed me. I dont think she sees me as a creep because when I walk down the halls her friends dont seem disgusted by me.
 

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sorry, but what exactly is the question?
 

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i wouldn't do anything with her.
get back out there and spin some more plates.
find you somebody that can't get enough of you.
 
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