"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What should I do so she wont possibly scream at me? (not a noobie question)

zack77766

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her words are different but her body tells me GO.

Why is she doing this? This confuses me because you guys have always posted "watch a women's actions not her words". I'm not scared of getting blown out, just scared of being screamed at so please understand. I wont give up because it seems she likes me but I just want an explanation of this behavior. My theory is that I am overpowering emotionally (Im not playing lots of hot girls want a piece of me) but logically she has a bf (if he exists) and she doesnt know me. What should I do? I believe I found my dream girl and no im not pining over her. women arent an axis of my life. I even gave her a final chance to build rapport but she never really said yes or no to it (she just said she wasnt comfortable responding to me)

If you need clarification please ask. Im guessing maybe I should be a bit indirect like we could be friends and then escalate.
Some snippets of email: I have a bf, youre making me uncomfortable, I dont want to do anything with you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I havent done anything (I mean anything) wrong except forgetting to build rapport and qualify. I set the frame that she needed me. I dont think she sees me as a creep because when I walk down the halls her friends dont seem disgusted by me.
 

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sorry, but what exactly is the question?
 

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i wouldn't do anything with her.
get back out there and spin some more plates.
find you somebody that can't get enough of you.
 
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