"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What should i Do? (She Could be a Stalker)

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Man i don't know what the problem is. I just look good and can get plenty girls but i still don't think so or i just attract the wrong ****ing people. Something Similar happened to me in 8th grade but this one was worst.

This is how it went...

I just got out of school and was waiting for my cousin to pick me up so we can go chill with his friends. So i wanted to go sit in the park but too many people were in the park and i didn't want to have to stare at them the whole time. So i go across the Street and sit on one of the poles. Then some girl comes towards me probably a 6. But she looked kinda weird. Almost like a Bum looking dress code but then again she could pass as not a bum. She looked clean and smellled good. But anyway i looking at her because i was looking at her face having no intention of talking to her. Then she comes up to me saying...

Her: Hi
Me: Hi
Her: Do you know what school is down the block
Me: No
Her: O, Because i was looking for my friend, the officers(Some people who pick up kids that are walking the streets during school hours) had picked us up and now i trying to find which school she goes too.
Me: O
Her: O my name is S..(Forgot her name in less than a second lol)
Me: I'm Andre
Her: I like your glasses and Sneakers
ME: Thx
Her: Are u Shy (I kinda was nervous as in wtf why she talking to me lol because i was trying to figure out whether she was Homeless, Hoe, or some Crackhead)
Me: Na
Her: Are you gay?
Me: Hell No, Are you gay
Her: No , Why do i look gay?
Me: No
Her: Do you always come out at this time and do you always hang out over here
Me: NO not all the time (Ya i do i just didnt want her coming around here lol)
Her: O , Anyway can i see your sneakers just take them off i never seen such big feet
Me: (smiling)
Her: IT turns me on
Me: (Laughing like a ****)
Her: Are you scared to take off your sneaker cause were around to many people, Lets walk around and go some place where were alone (One point i was thinking o i can get a nice quicky cause the store was right there to get condoms, Then i was like o man she might have ****ing aids look at how she looks)
Me: Na i'm good , I am waiting for my cousin

She then takes off her glove and on her hand has some ****ed up black nail polish on her hand and puts her hand in my socks

Her: You got all nervous when i did that
Her: O, You starting to turn me off
Me: (Laughing like a ****)


Then my cousin comes i say there he is i have to go

Her: Whats your number?
Me: Whats yours i don't like giving girls my number i like calling them
Her: How do i know your going to call me back.
Me: I will , ok bye

She did look pretty in the face but then again i don't know wtf is wrong with her and why she was dressing like that. But i don't know wtf i should do. Also on the paper it had a name call Dominque and she said that was her nickname that ppl called her and **** when i pronounced the name ****ing wrong and she said that was her name and when i thought about it my old gf had a different name that was spelt like that so she was ****ing lieing all over
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ak89

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wat do u think i should do should i call her or should i just not chill over there for a few days cause she does know that i hang there wat school i go too and know wat time i get out?
 

Ak89

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wat do u think i should do should i call her or should i just not chill over there for a few days cause she does know that i hang there wat school i go too and know wat time i get out

sry abou tthat double post
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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justsomeguy1984

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dude, don't call her. she sounds like a freak to me. maybe if you see her again while you are hanging around you can chat with her a bit to find out more about her if you want to, but she sounds like a psycho to me.
 

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She sounds like one of the chix we have around here that hang out downtown. They dress 5hitty, hang around the same smelly club where E is abundant and big fat guys beat each other up.

If she looked and acted that fvcked up, don't bother with her. She'll probably kill you if you don't fvck her.
 

Mack Bishop

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sound like shes either a ***** trying to turn a trick or shes trying to set u up to get robbed (why would she reach in your sock)
 

Ak89

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Ya i figured u she was probably trying to rob me or something. An then that guy who walked back looking for 125th street and then says she is pretty.

First of all 125th is not Downtown its no where near where we were.

lol
 
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