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What should i Do? (She Could be a Stalker)

Ak89

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Man i don't know what the problem is. I just look good and can get plenty girls but i still don't think so or i just attract the wrong ****ing people. Something Similar happened to me in 8th grade but this one was worst.

This is how it went...

I just got out of school and was waiting for my cousin to pick me up so we can go chill with his friends. So i wanted to go sit in the park but too many people were in the park and i didn't want to have to stare at them the whole time. So i go across the Street and sit on one of the poles. Then some girl comes towards me probably a 6. But she looked kinda weird. Almost like a Bum looking dress code but then again she could pass as not a bum. She looked clean and smellled good. But anyway i looking at her because i was looking at her face having no intention of talking to her. Then she comes up to me saying...

Her: Hi
Me: Hi
Her: Do you know what school is down the block
Me: No
Her: O, Because i was looking for my friend, the officers(Some people who pick up kids that are walking the streets during school hours) had picked us up and now i trying to find which school she goes too.
Me: O
Her: O my name is S..(Forgot her name in less than a second lol)
Me: I'm Andre
Her: I like your glasses and Sneakers
ME: Thx
Her: Are u Shy (I kinda was nervous as in wtf why she talking to me lol because i was trying to figure out whether she was Homeless, Hoe, or some Crackhead)
Me: Na
Her: Are you gay?
Me: Hell No, Are you gay
Her: No , Why do i look gay?
Me: No
Her: Do you always come out at this time and do you always hang out over here
Me: NO not all the time (Ya i do i just didnt want her coming around here lol)
Her: O , Anyway can i see your sneakers just take them off i never seen such big feet
Me: (smiling)
Her: IT turns me on
Me: (Laughing like a ****)
Her: Are you scared to take off your sneaker cause were around to many people, Lets walk around and go some place where were alone (One point i was thinking o i can get a nice quicky cause the store was right there to get condoms, Then i was like o man she might have ****ing aids look at how she looks)
Me: Na i'm good , I am waiting for my cousin

She then takes off her glove and on her hand has some ****ed up black nail polish on her hand and puts her hand in my socks

Her: You got all nervous when i did that
Her: O, You starting to turn me off
Me: (Laughing like a ****)


Then my cousin comes i say there he is i have to go

Her: Whats your number?
Me: Whats yours i don't like giving girls my number i like calling them
Her: How do i know your going to call me back.
Me: I will , ok bye

She did look pretty in the face but then again i don't know wtf is wrong with her and why she was dressing like that. But i don't know wtf i should do. Also on the paper it had a name call Dominque and she said that was her nickname that ppl called her and **** when i pronounced the name ****ing wrong and she said that was her name and when i thought about it my old gf had a different name that was spelt like that so she was ****ing lieing all over
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ak89

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wat do u think i should do should i call her or should i just not chill over there for a few days cause she does know that i hang there wat school i go too and know wat time i get out?
 

Ak89

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wat do u think i should do should i call her or should i just not chill over there for a few days cause she does know that i hang there wat school i go too and know wat time i get out

sry abou tthat double post
 

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justsomeguy1984

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dude, don't call her. she sounds like a freak to me. maybe if you see her again while you are hanging around you can chat with her a bit to find out more about her if you want to, but she sounds like a psycho to me.
 

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She sounds like one of the chix we have around here that hang out downtown. They dress 5hitty, hang around the same smelly club where E is abundant and big fat guys beat each other up.

If she looked and acted that fvcked up, don't bother with her. She'll probably kill you if you don't fvck her.
 

Mack Bishop

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sound like shes either a ***** trying to turn a trick or shes trying to set u up to get robbed (why would she reach in your sock)
 

Ak89

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Ya i figured u she was probably trying to rob me or something. An then that guy who walked back looking for 125th street and then says she is pretty.

First of all 125th is not Downtown its no where near where we were.

lol
 
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