"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What should I do SERIOUSLY!!??

Badmannaz

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okay here it goes..

I go up with my parents to see my brother last week at his university...and my parents decide to leave me there so my brother can take me home when he came home for a couple days...me n my brother end up kicking it with his friends..it turns out i actually gained the interest of one girl HB8.5 very nice!!
well she's been txtn me tellin me things this and that....Now she's the type who get's hit on alot....she told me she didn't want a boyfriend b/c guys are scum...last guy really pissed her off..and that was a couple months ago...Now my brother wants me to come back up there and chill this weekend and so i told her me and her could chill now here is the situation broken down

-still interest level but not as high right now (on both parts)
-she's protestant and has been goin to church lately


Idk i have enough game to do something but seriously i don't know what to do?? should i try to go all the way...or what? what would you do? it's just i don't want to go up there and do something and she not like me anymore if i don't call for one day or something...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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hey man... piece of advice.

Relax.

Do whatever you want to and don't worry about pis$ing her off. Spend time with her and have fun. enjoy the "now" and don't worry if she hates you for some stupid reason, afterwards. If she's like that, then better left alone, I say.. What does she expect, a diamond? You live far away, I presume so it's sorta out of your control, isn't it?

Stop worrying about it, man... seriously. It's not a big deal and don't think she hasn't had "weekend flings" before. All girls have.. most have had many.
 

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Your status as "visitor" puts you in a good position to get some action this weekend.

1) You will not be around for a long period of time, so making you wait for sex is pointless.

2) It can be kept on the DL, so she does not have to worry about being labeled a "slut."

This is why vacation sex is easy. Enjoy the ride, and like the guy above me said, relax. No need to overanalyze anything... just go in there, do what you do best, and if it happens it happens.
 

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Dont listen to what women say, but only listen to what they do. so act like she never said it. its like my gf said she didnt want sex but she kept grabbing my **** and trying to stick it inside of her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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seanchai

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You mention she's Protestant. Is that important? Are you from West Belfast?

Anyway, she seems interested enough. Agree with TBAC, do what you want. If you think you have enough game, you do.
 
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