"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What should I do SERIOUSLY!!??

Badmannaz

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okay here it goes..

I go up with my parents to see my brother last week at his university...and my parents decide to leave me there so my brother can take me home when he came home for a couple days...me n my brother end up kicking it with his friends..it turns out i actually gained the interest of one girl HB8.5 very nice!!
well she's been txtn me tellin me things this and that....Now she's the type who get's hit on alot....she told me she didn't want a boyfriend b/c guys are scum...last guy really pissed her off..and that was a couple months ago...Now my brother wants me to come back up there and chill this weekend and so i told her me and her could chill now here is the situation broken down

-still interest level but not as high right now (on both parts)
-she's protestant and has been goin to church lately


Idk i have enough game to do something but seriously i don't know what to do?? should i try to go all the way...or what? what would you do? it's just i don't want to go up there and do something and she not like me anymore if i don't call for one day or something...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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hey man... piece of advice.

Relax.

Do whatever you want to and don't worry about pis$ing her off. Spend time with her and have fun. enjoy the "now" and don't worry if she hates you for some stupid reason, afterwards. If she's like that, then better left alone, I say.. What does she expect, a diamond? You live far away, I presume so it's sorta out of your control, isn't it?

Stop worrying about it, man... seriously. It's not a big deal and don't think she hasn't had "weekend flings" before. All girls have.. most have had many.
 

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Your status as "visitor" puts you in a good position to get some action this weekend.

1) You will not be around for a long period of time, so making you wait for sex is pointless.

2) It can be kept on the DL, so she does not have to worry about being labeled a "slut."

This is why vacation sex is easy. Enjoy the ride, and like the guy above me said, relax. No need to overanalyze anything... just go in there, do what you do best, and if it happens it happens.
 

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Dont listen to what women say, but only listen to what they do. so act like she never said it. its like my gf said she didnt want sex but she kept grabbing my **** and trying to stick it inside of her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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seanchai

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You mention she's Protestant. Is that important? Are you from West Belfast?

Anyway, she seems interested enough. Agree with TBAC, do what you want. If you think you have enough game, you do.
 
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